My life is lacking lust & passion. I used to say that, but in the time I have been on Adult FriendFinder I have experienced both. I have experienced the intense sexual desires that curls one's toes. I have let out the inner beast and she doesn't want to go away. I have discovered what I like...what I crave. I have learned I like to be chased, not pushed. I am turned on by a strong man. A man who can take care of business and direct me as needed.

I am a professional woman in the community, therefore descretion is a must! I am a lady who is looking to supplement her sex life. I want to broaden my horizons, not change my circumstances. I am only interested in one thing and one thing only--exploring my sexuality. I am looking for a man who is interested in the same thing that I am.

I am married with a family and that is my number one priority. My career is number two. I am number three and that is where my needs and having them fulfilled comes in. I am looking for a man that is more than okay with that ranking. I need a man that understands and accepts what that means. I am not able to drop a hat and run out all the time, but with a little planning magic can happen.

I like being treated like a lady even though sometimes I am not. I enjoy deep and meaningful conversations on all different subjects. I enjoy all music, except country. I love to laugh and make people laugh. Despite having an ad on this site and what that implies, I am a very open and honest person.

I am a fuller figured lady. I am 5' 4" tall with blonde short hair and blue eyes. I am very fair skinned. My bra size is 44D. I may be a larger lady, but I am extremely active and in very good health.

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My Ideal Person: The men I would consider for this role in my life must be willing to participate in safe sex, be clean, healthy, disease-free, open minded, have a good sense of humor, be honest, caring, respectful, stable, loving, warm and a most importantly a gentleman. Age is unimportant, however, I do enjoy an older man. But I should mention that I am curious about having a younger lover.

I am looking to get to know and trust my selection prior to any sexual encounter. This is important to me as I believe sharing a sexual experience also requires being responsible for all parties involved. I want to start out with a couple of messages, advance to email and take it from there.

I am looking for a kind, patient person who understands the complexities of the emotions involved in the adulterers' mind and heart. I am looking for a strong man to help guide me through the process and help me accept the passion and lust that I long for and deserve. Since I have been exploring, I have been through a cycle of emotions ranging from guilt to being justified in my decisions. I want someone that can relate and aid me during those times.

This is not a job for just anyone. I am looking for a great lover who turns me on. I want to feel like number 1 in his world even though I can't give that in return.

Perhaps I am asking for alot, but this is exactly what I would like.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Being that I am a woman in control at home, in my career and
my current sex life, I would like to experience what it feels
like to take a step back and be taken care of especially in
the bedroom.


I want to be led. I want to follow instruction and have my
thinking done for me. I am not into whips and chains, but
light bondage and blindfolding sounds delightful. I also
enjoy dirty talk being whispered in my ear as my lover's
cock is thrust in and out of me. I enjoy receiving oral while
being fingered slow and easy.


In addition, I appreciate a lover with an open mind and an
overall accepting nature about them. I want to feel safe
and secure with my lover, which will allow the free exchange
of ideas and fantasies. I am looking for a long term safe,
discreet, sex relationship. I am not looking for multiple
lovers. I am just looking for one special person to make
my life complete. I know you are out there. Is it you?

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, A dark back alley, My desk at work, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Blindfolds

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