I am married woman who needs to feel wanted and cared for. My spouse likes to berate me, talk down to me, thinks its funny when his ex's are around and will stare at them and he always acts like I am a waste of his time. He likes to stare at other women and when I say something, he acts like he didn't do anything. He makes me feel uncomfortable when I start a new job by calling and leaving me nasty messages. He never gives me any money to buy clothes-i have about 2 pair of pants that fits me. I have to use my student loans to make my car payments. I believe he fools around on me and its about time I have some fun.

Commitment-wise, we can just be good friends who want to have a little fun together or we could be each others secret best friends. When I'm out driving I feel completely free in my car. Sexually, I'm pretty open to a "friends with benefits" situation. The philosophy I live by is be the Good Time everybody wants to have. I've reached the point where my marriage just isn't doing it for me, but I'm not divorcing. I am the type of person who likes to have her cake and eat it to. I'm not changing my life, I'm just trying to make it more interesting. I look forward to putting a smile on your face. If you contact me please be discreet. I'll do the same for you.

My Ideal Person: I am looking for a person that is understanding to my situation. It's hard for me to get away from my spouse. I am in need of companionship, friends & possibly a good time. I don't need any drama--I have enough of that in my life. I need a friend who will let me, be me. I would like to meet someone of professional stature and someone willing to spoil me, if you know what I mean. Must understand that I want my cake and eat it to--that means I'm not getting divorced, but I want you when I can have you!

I work outside of the house with an office job by day- and during the nights when my husband isn't home I operate my own personal sexual website if your interested in being part of my world