Feb 2, 2012 - Looking to find a hot female to join my lover and I to fulfill my birthday fantasy and his 3some fantasy. Hit me up ladies. He is hot, hung, sexy, and has a smile that will make you melt!

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I have 3 lovers - one never had a 3some, one experienced with FMF, and one experienced with both FMF and MFM. I want to find someone who can join any of them. All are guys and all nicely hung ladies (7-8 and nice thickness). No guy/guy contact if it is a MFM. Prefer ladies who are bi who are slim to average body and guys who are straight that are 7+. If you are interested to know more - please contact me for more into. I will not share their photos with you until they have agreed they are interested to know more about you. You will be getting to know me first and go from there. Face photos required for everyone. Guys you may be asked for length verification photos prior to meeting.

****WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this.****

Jan 12, 2012: Wow! Today is my 13th anniversary of being on this site. You should wish me a happy anniversary! Same profile, same handle. I am a rare breed around here these days I think! Maybe the site should give me a lifetime gold membership for free for my loyalty! What do y'all think?

The past 13 years have had their ups and downs on the site, but I am still here because in the end this site has brought me several great lifetime friends and several great lovers. One I have been with for over 7 years now! And a few others for over 3. And one for just a few months but boy is he yummy!!!

My basic profile will stay the same most of the time but I will update this portion from time to time. So please check back often! Happy Hunting everyone!

Jan 12, 2012: The update of my profile is finally here. PLEASE READ THE ENTIRE PROFILE BEFORE RESPONDING. IT IS LONG, YES, BUT IT WILL SAVE ALL OF US SOME TIME AND FRUSTRATION IF YOU DO SO. Yes it is long, but if you read it all, you will understand why. Please keep reading…

FACE PHOTOS ARE A REQUIREMENT FOR ME. MINE ARE POSTED FOR YOU TO SEE. IF YOURS ARE NOT, THEN PLEASE ATTACH THEM TO THE EMAIL YOU SEND TO ME. AND DO NOT ASK TO SEND THEM TO AN OFF-SITE EMAIL ADDRESS. FIND A FRIEND TO TAKE A PHOTO OF YOU WITH THEIR CELL PHONE AND EMAIL IT TO YOURSELF SO YOU CAN ATTACH IT OR FIND SOME OTHER WAY TO GET A PHOTO THAT YOU CAN SEND. AND PLEASE MAKE SURE IT IS RECENT - WITHIN THE LAST 6 MONTHS - MOST OF MY PHOTOS POSTED ARE WITHIN THE LAST SIX MONTHS - SO THEY ARE CURRENT AND SHOW WHO I AM.

First off - a word on my membership on this site. This site began around mid 1997 roughly. I have been a member of this site since January 1999. So I have been around for a while and I do know a lot of people on this site. BUT! do NOT confuse my time on this site with the thought that I am easy and have slept with gawd and everyone over the past 13+ years. I have not nor will I ever. I am very picky about my partners and do not sleep with just anyone. I have self esteem and standards and I do not sacrifice them for anyone - not even you!

About me - I will turn 37 this year (2012), single, never married, no kids, Texas native, all natural Female. I have long curly red hair… sometimes… red with blond streaks others… you may just never know and beautiful olive green eyes. I believe I am just your average plain Jane, girl next door. But admittedly sometimes I can look pretty smoking hot too. Everyone has their days. But I am by no means an ugly lady. I have 3 dogs (2 Chihuahuas and 1 lab mix) that are basically my children. I am extremely open, honest, and direct. Sometimes too honest and too direct. But, I believe in having the utmost integrity in everything I do both personally and professionally. I will never hide who I am. I DO NOT PLAY GAMES. I am an average to plus size gal - but working very hard to make that just an average gal and no longer a plus size. I am a real woman and I do have curves - most in the right places - lol - some I am still working on. I am just a little larger than what is considered "average" for the American female. I do have a full length photo posted on my profile but it is from a few years ago and I have made great strides since then. I will get a new one posted as soon as I can. I work out 5-7 days a week for 1-2 hours. I have started to participate in 5ks and other competitions. I love working out!

I am what I call bipolyswingle (I reserve all rights to copy-write/trademark that word) - bisexual -polyamorous -swinging -single. I am bisexual and do love the touch and feel of a woman, however I do admittedly have limited female experience in comparison to men. But I don't doubt what I like. I have not been involved with many women since my last GF in 2006. I am very picky when it comes to my female partners. Also, I am in an almost 8 year polyamorous relationship that we have no intentions of ever ending. But that does not mean that the sex part of that relationship could not change. The sex part of it can and most likely one day will end. But this "love" in my life will remain and anyone I become involved with on any level will have to accept this person as part of my life. He is what I consider my Secondary Relationship. My poly partner is married and we have no intentions of his marriage ending because of what we share. I am quite happy he has found his primary relationship. And he is always happy for me when I find someone who makes me happy. We only want the best for the other.

Try me out and see what I am about. You might be surprised. I have a sense of humor, am a smart ass, love sports, love to have fun, and love to have sex - lots of sex - daily - multiple times a day if I could! So what are you waiting for? Why haven't you started writing that email to me yet? OH YEH! I told you to read the ENTIRE profile first! So keep reading for what I am looking for...…

About you - I am looking for one of four things: Friends, Friends with benefits, Lovers, and a Primary relationship/Partner. Please note that I am open to Men or Women (boys and little girls need not apply) for any of these four things.

Friends - one can never have too many friends. Friends are people who I can go to local events with, hang out and watch sports with, go girl/boy hunting with, who knows. They are solely friends. We must have common interests, comparable personalities, and similar goals - mainly to have fun!

Friend with benefits - same as friends but there is mutual sexual attraction there that we both want to act upon and from time to time will act upon. There will be no set schedule. Just when we are together, if we feel the mood arise, we act upon it.

Lovers - here is where the fun begins. I have sexual needs. And I know that thus far, it has been difficult to find one person to meet those needs. So I am looking for a few people who can get together on a regular basis - regular meaning at least once a week - for the purpose of fulfilling mutual sexual desires. To be a lover, you must also be a friend with benefit for me. So that means you have to be my friend first. If you can't tell - there is a natural progression to this. To be one of the latter, you must be one of the former. I like sex - a lot. I want to have sex daily. So I am hoping to meet individuals to help me achieve that until I find my primary relationship.

Primary relationship/partner - now I call this my primary relationship because my polyamorous relationship will be my secondary relationship. And I call it my partner because I am not looking for marriage, but someone who is as committed to me as I am to them. I honestly did not think this was something I wanted or could find from a website like this, until I met an amazing man online a few years ago. My partner would always have first dibs on me. And my partner and I together would determine if I had other lovers or not. By that I mean that when I find my primary relationship, he/she and I together will discuss if we will be monogamous or if we will have an open relationship. And what WE decide TOGETHER is what will be until we decide otherwise. I do believe in openly physical while emotionally monogamous relationships (aside from my poly partners that is).

No person I meet will be automatically disregarded for any or all of these levels. Everyone has a place until I say otherwise. And trust me I will let you know very early on if you have no chance past friendship - or if you even have a chance at friendship with me.

I AM NOT HERE TO PLAY GAMES, SEND ENDLESS EMAILS/PHOTOS. I WANT TO MEET REAL PEOPLE FOR REAL FUN BOTH IN AND OUT OF THE BEDROOM. PLEASE BE THE SAME.

FACE TO FACE MEETINGS ARE A REQUIREMENT BEFORE DISCUSSION OF ANYTHING PAST A FRIENDSHIP HAPPENS. That means do not write me asking me about my favorite sexual position or nude photos or when we are going to hook up or anything like that. If you email me, email me to get to know me. To work towards meeting in person. If I feel comfortable enough discussing more before we meet in person, I will bring it up. But respect both me and yourself enough to start off telling me about you - and asking me about me - not our sexual exploits or wilds.

Some general requirements for people: for regular friends, there is no age/race limitations. But if you are interested in a friends with benefits or more situation I do have age/race limitations. Age - please be between at least 18 (preferably 21 in all honesty though) and 45, maybe 49. If you are 50+, sorry but I will not be interested - then we might be able to talk - but I would ask for verifiable financials before we talked about anything! Race - honestly I am pretty much only attracted to white men and white or latina women. I might consider Hispanic men and American Indian men or women on a case by case situation. I am not attracted to Asian, Middle Eastern or African Americans though. Sorry - just not - not on a physical level.

NO ONE NIGHT STANDS. NO "PASSING THROUGH TOWNERS". NO MARRIED/ATTACHED MEN WHO'S SPOUSE/PARTNER DOES NOT KNOW THEY ARE PLAYING ON THE SIDE. HONESTY IS KEY! NO DRAMA. NO NEGATIVE ATTITUDES. NO CHEATERS. KNOW YOURSELF AND WHERE YOU STAND.

AND FOR ALL THAT IS GOOD IN THE WORLD, PLEASE – PLEASE - PLEASE!!! - HAVE SOME INTEGRITY - PLEASE BE A MAN/WOMAN OF YOUR WORD - in this day and age this is becoming a rare commodity in a person. I don't want flakes or fakes. I want real people who will follow through with things. IF you can't follow through, then please don't message. This is VERY important to me.

I am open to PUBLIC individual meets with the right person/persons. I most likely will not have sex upon a first meeting, and sometimes not even on a second meeting. I must be comfortable with you before that step is taken. Also be willing to be open about what people you have been with from this site as I do check people out before taking that step with them. Clean and disease free is super important. Test results may be required if there is any question as to your status. Please have been tested within the last year. Sexual health is important for you, me, and any other partners we may have.

WHEW!!! STILL HERE??? THANK GOODNESS!!! If you have read this far, then you know where I stand and where I am coming from. You know my expectations and requirements. SO WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR??? WRITE ME ALREADY!!! I welcome any and all emails, but please understand I may not respond to all emails.

HAPPY HUNTING EVERYONE!

P.S. PLEASE DO NOT CONFUSE MY PROFILE OR MY PROFILE PHOTOS WITH THOSE OF OTHER MEMBERS. THERE IS AND WILL ALWAYS BE ONLY ONE TXCOUNTRYGIRL. IF YOU SEE MY PROFILE PHOTOS OR TEXT BEING USED ON ANOTHER PROFILE, PLEASE CONTACT ME AND LET ME KNOW WHO THE MEMBER IS. THANKS Y'ALL!

My Ideal Person: I can't describe exactly what it is I want aside from what I have described above. I can say that as a country gal from Texas I am attracted to COUNTRY BOYS! I just love them trucks and wrangler cowboy butts! But I am not limited to just country folk. I also have a thing for bald/shaved headed men.
Just try me and see what happens. That is all I can say.

Female wise - I am fairly open. I do like natural beauty in women.

Hope to hear from you soon! Later y'all! Oh and if your sun sign is Taurus, Scorpio, Libra, or Cancer - I REALLY want to talk to you (good sexual matches for me)! (but not limited to that)

Remember If you do not have a photo posted, please attach one to your email as I respond to those emails more quickly as they show your seriousness with this.

Thanks and happy hunting!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Chris LeDoux, George Strait, Eminem, 50 cent

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Jen Garner, Sandra Bullock, Matt Mconaughy

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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