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miss_candy_cane 36/F
Upstate NY, New York
Introduction
UPDATE::: I have been happilly dating someone and no longer seeking anything other than friendship. So please, I request everyone honor this request. OAOTL G
When love beckons to you, follow him, though his ways are hard and steep. And when his wings enfold you yield to him, though the word hidden among his pinions may wound you. And when he speaks to you believe in him, though his voice may shatter your dreams as the north wind lays waste the garden.
For even as love crowns you so shall he correctify you. Even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning. Even as he ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that quiver in the sun, so shall he descend to your roots and shake them in their clinging to the earth.
Like sheaves of corn he gathers you unto himself.
He threshes you to make you naked.
He sifts you to free you from your husks.
He grinds you to whiteness.
He kneads you until you are pliant;
And then he assigns you to his sacred fire, that you may become sacred bread for God's sacred feast.
All these things shall love do unto you that you may know the secrets of your heart, and in that knowledge become a fragment of Life's heart.
But if in your fear you would seek only love's peace and love's pleasure, then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love's threshing-floor, into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears. Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself. Love possesses not nor would it be possessed; For love is sufficient unto love.
When you love you should not say, "Life is in my heart," but rather, "I am in the heart of life."
And think not you can direct the course of love, for love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
Love has no other desire but to fulfill itself. But if you love and must needs have desires, let these be your desires: To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night. To know the pain of too much tenderness. To be wounded by your own understanding of love; And to bleed willingly and joyfully. To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving; To rest at the noon hour and meditate love's ecstasy; To return home at eventide with gratitude; And then to sleep with a prayer for the beloved in your heart and a song of praise upon your lips.
Give it all to yourself, your past regrets, your present problems, your future ambitions, your fears, dreams, desires, weaknesses, habits, hurts and hang-ups. Put yourself in the drivers seat of your life and take your hands off the steering wheel. Don't be afraid; nothing under your control can ever be out of control........... So enjoy the ride of your life, it can be a truly amazing road trip if allowed to be beyond all of your boundaries.........
My Ideal Person: It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting in your heart's longing.
It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dreams, for the adventure of being alive.
It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain.
I want to know if you can sit in pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it or fix it.
I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own,if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tip of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, be realistic, or to remember the limitations of being human.
It doesn't interest me if the story you're telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul.
I want to know if you can be faithful and therefore be trustworthy.
I want to know if you can see beauty even when it is not pretty every day, and if you can source your life from God's presence.
I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge of a lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, "Yes!"
It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have.
I want to know if you can get up after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done for others.
It doesn't interest me who you are, how you came to be here.
I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back.
It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied.
I want to know what sustains you from the inside when all else falls away.
I want to know if you can be alone with yourself, and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.
It is only at that very moment that you are able shed away your guards and become one.....please look deeper until you find your barest soul, then smile as that soul is what I seek.
When love beckons to you, follow him, though his ways are hard and steep. And when his wings enfold you yield to him, though the word hidden among his pinions may wound you. And when he speaks to you believe in him, though his voice may shatter your dreams as the north wind lays waste the garden.
For even as love crowns you so shall he correctify you. Even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning. Even as he ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that quiver in the sun, so shall he descend to your roots and shake them in their clinging to the earth.
Like sheaves of corn he gathers you unto himself.
He threshes you to make you naked.
He sifts you to free you from your husks.
He grinds you to whiteness.
He kneads you until you are pliant;
And then he assigns you to his sacred fire, that you may become sacred bread for God's sacred feast.
All these things shall love do unto you that you may know the secrets of your heart, and in that knowledge become a fragment of Life's heart.
But if in your fear you would seek only love's peace and love's pleasure, then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love's threshing-floor, into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears. Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself. Love possesses not nor would it be possessed; For love is sufficient unto love.
When you love you should not say, "Life is in my heart," but rather, "I am in the heart of life."
And think not you can direct the course of love, for love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
Love has no other desire but to fulfill itself. But if you love and must needs have desires, let these be your desires: To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night. To know the pain of too much tenderness. To be wounded by your own understanding of love; And to bleed willingly and joyfully. To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving; To rest at the noon hour and meditate love's ecstasy; To return home at eventide with gratitude; And then to sleep with a prayer for the beloved in your heart and a song of praise upon your lips.
Give it all to yourself, your past regrets, your present problems, your future ambitions, your fears, dreams, desires, weaknesses, habits, hurts and hang-ups. Put yourself in the drivers seat of your life and take your hands off the steering wheel. Don't be afraid; nothing under your control can ever be out of control........... So enjoy the ride of your life, it can be a truly amazing road trip if allowed to be beyond all of your boundaries.........
My Ideal Person: It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting in your heart's longing.
It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dreams, for the adventure of being alive.
It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain.
I want to know if you can sit in pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it or fix it.
I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own,if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tip of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, be realistic, or to remember the limitations of being human.
It doesn't interest me if the story you're telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul.
I want to know if you can be faithful and therefore be trustworthy.
I want to know if you can see beauty even when it is not pretty every day, and if you can source your life from God's presence.
I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge of a lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, "Yes!"
It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have.
I want to know if you can get up after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done for others.
It doesn't interest me who you are, how you came to be here.
I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back.
It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied.
I want to know what sustains you from the inside when all else falls away.
I want to know if you can be alone with yourself, and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.
It is only at that very moment that you are able shed away your guards and become one.....please look deeper until you find your barest soul, then smile as that soul is what I seek.
What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
too man to list
Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Oh this one is going to be a fun one to answer........
One hint and everyone shall have to use your imagination
for further details.
Ready for that hint?
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Blindfolds, Massage
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Celebrity? So not my style, the mind is such a wonderful sexual asset but one must be true to themselves.
I find this tends to lack on the celebrity side. they morph
into what the audience wants to see, so not sexy in my world.
Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.
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Information
- 36 / female
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Upstate NY, New York, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Bi-curious
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| Looking For: Men, Women or Couples (man and woman) for Erotic Chat or Email, Discreet Relationship, Bondage & Discipline, Misc. Fetishes, Sadism & Masochism or Other "Alternative" Activities |
| Birthdate: | May 1, 1975 (36 years old) |
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| Relocate?: | Maybe/Yes | ||
| Marital Status: | Attached | ||
| Height: | 5 ft 2 in / 157-160 cm | ||
| Body Type: | Slim/Petite | ||
| Smoking: | I'm a non-smoker | ||
| Drinking: | I'm a light/social drinker | ||
| Drugs: | I don't use drugs | ||
| Education: | Master's degree | ||
| Occupation: | Healthcare Admin | ||
| Race: | Caucasian | ||
| Religion: | Catholic | ||
| Have Children: | No | ||
| Want Children: | Prefer not to say | ||
| Bra Size: | 34 / 75 C | ||
| Speaks: | English, French, German, Portuguese, Spanish, Russian | ||
| Hair Color: | Brown | ||
| Hair Length: | Medium | ||
| Eye Color: | Blue | ||
| Glasses or Contacts: | None | ||
| My Trophy Case: | 
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