I'm a warm, sincere, masculine and mellow light complexioned black guy freshly 50 who besides the obvious, enjoys alternative/eclectic music and/or arts in general, outdoors/nature, fine wine & dine and traveling the world... I'm looking to talk with and eventually meet up (yes, actually meet up, live and for real) and play with a young white guy 18 to about early 40's (the younger the better). Especially seeking a guy who has never played on the other side of the street before but is curious about how much fun it might be... But, if you've already visited the other side or even reside there, this could be cool too. Especially if you happen to be a guy who's more on the big and beefy side of things build wise as this would be a major plus in any case... But, skinny guys are cool too...

My Ideal Person: Bottom line in what I'm looking for though is a sincere, nice guy (bad boy on the outside, good guy on the inside okay) who could be into at least receiving and/or possibly giving pleasure man to man. I simply LOVE to give a young white guy head! Yeah, mainly, I'm attracted to Caucasian guys but I can say that Hispanics and Native Americans catch my eye from time to time as well. Overall, I'm into all types physically. Skin & bones to average to muscular/defined to naturally thick/beefy/husky/chubby. But as mentioned the latter (thick/beefy/chubby) turns me on the most (there's just something about a nice thick and plump young guy with a hard boner sticking out from his beefy bod that I find to be totally hot!). Other than that, I'm totally open... Smooth, hairy, clean shaven, bearded, boyish/twink, geek, dork, nerd, BEAR CUB (my overall favorite). Short or tall, big dick or small Cut or wears a hood, hey, it's all good! As long as I can make you hard (wet too if you are the type that's inclined to leak when you're excited...) and of course make you feel good and cum... cum... cum... Though to be honest, if your bone is big, that could bump you to the head of the line... I Would love to start out by trading a few emails, pics and then eventually (hopefully sooner than later) meet up to play show and tell live and in person . Only requirements for a meet would be that you are a real dude (as in masculine and/or otherwise totally straight appearing), and most important: hygienically clean and STD free (as I am). I do prefer to see at least a face pic before setting up a meet too (especially if you're over 30 y/o) and of course a pic of your usually packaged goods offered at full attention would be most welcome as well. Married, got a g/f? or, just need to keep this particular urge a total secret for whatever reason? No prob. I'm 100% discreet, on the DL and we can be as covert about this as need be. Also, if you're just a young, horny guy who's perpetually hard and full of cum, in need of release like 24/7 and would be into meeting up and you no more than just kicking back, relaxing and just letting an eager and willing older guy like me give you total deep throat head and lick your balls. Then, eventually (or quickly?) cause you to give it up as I swallow and savor every drop of your creamy man juice without you having to reciprocate in any way at all? Yes, this could be arranged too if I like you enough. Maybe this can just be a little experiment for you to see if you think a dude can do a better job sucking you off than a chick? Or, maybe you think you might enjoy having a nice hot mouth to stick your dick into for a change while you're watching your favorite porn? But, of course if you wanted to play with and/or suck my dick too, I would never be one to stop you, you could even go first, especially if you're more of the type that once you cum, you're ready to go... Yeah oral is my primary interests here. I also however enjoy lots of body contact (frottage). Not too many guys seem to be into this. But, if you happen to enjoy (or fantasize about being with another dude, getting on top of each other and grinding together boner to boner until one or both of us nuts between our bellies, this would be an awesome plus! Beyond that I could be into getting into more "invasive" activities too with a guy if the mutual comfort level is there. As far as this goes I'd especially prefer to be on the catcher end of things (though I might be into pitching a game or two...). Foreplay is definitely underrated as far as I'm concerned too, so if there were to be a mutual (emphasis on "mutual") desire, deep, wet, passionate kissing and such could work with me too (again only if there is indeed a mutual desire). NSA seems to be the rule here on this site and I'm cool with that. Or, maybe an on going occasional fwb type thing might work? Though, I'm not going to lie, if by some total quirk of fate if I were to collide with a guy on here and we discovered total chemistry between us sexually as well as otherwise, something long term, exclusive and serious would be more than welcome (actually preferred)... But, getting back to the reality of this site... Perhaps when the wife or g/f is away we can get together and play! I'd be open to a ons as well if just a one time trial run would be all you're looking for just to test the waters and see what it's like... Again, all I require is that you be a nice guy, not a jerk in any way, hygienically clean, STD free and of course with at least a slight (but serious) curiosity about messing around with another guy...

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Miles Davis, Tool, NIN, Linkin Park, Korn, Peter Gabriel, Phillip
Glass, Deep Forest & much more...

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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