I am a real person in search of other real people. Looking for QUALITY not quantity!! If you're a player, MARRIED or attached, a puppy, into head games, drama or here to collect pics, looking for a mommy, someone to unload your woes on, can't think for yourself, a negative person in general or HAVE NO INTENTION OF ACTUALLY MEETING... NO THANKS... please move on.

Interested in getting involved with like minded people, check out the Butler / N .Allegheny County group I currently moderate.

Here comes the difficult part, describing yourself... can be difficult as there are so many layers to a person, like an onion (without the tears). I am not the normal chick type... shopping is not a high priority (would rather watch the game w/the guys) along with drama. Life has enough of that all by itself. I am honest, caring, straight forward, genuine, down to earth... a woman who knows herself, is what she says she is and means it, with a strong and outgoing personality and can think for herself and hold an intelligent conversation or talk nonsense and watch Bugs Bunny (I luv BB ) . Life is too short. Interests include: music, movies, reading, laughing (a must and have a very sick and sarcastic sense of humor), having a good time, hanging with friends (seem to get along better with guys), sex, the beach, yoga, outdoorsie stuff (camping, fishing, swimming, boating), road trips to anywhere ( have passport, will travel), act like a child sometimes... being an adult does not mean you have to lose your inner child. Physically I am attractive and curvy. Yes I have extra padding... know this is an issue for some, but honestly, your issue. For me it truly depends on the person. I am active, exercise, take care of myself and have good hygiene. LOL

And wait, did I say sex? Yes, I am a sexual being.. and happen to be a woman with a sex drive...and it should be fun, erotic, playful, romantic, soft and sensual AND passionate, down and dirty... keep the mind open to new experiences, always. It is give and take... I have no problem initiating, but not all the time... ravage me as you will.

BTW, no, the pic is NOT me. Anyone can put up a cock, pussy or tit pic... let's be a little creative people, use that imagination! And yes, I do have pics of me, but only after we've chatted and I know you're not an axe murderer or the guy sitting next to me at the office... or BOTH for that matter. LOL

My Ideal Person: Ideal person? Is there such a thing? Now PAY ATTENTION... I do NOT want a one night stand,a quickie blow job or someone to put notches on my bedpost (and neither should you). I do enjoy oral, but damn, I'm into the pleasure too. What I AM looking for is a FWB, someone to have fun with IN and OUT of the bedroom. Someone I have a connection with and has a strong sex drive like myself. How often you ask? Few times a week at least, perhaps an individual who appreciates a long night can go well into the next day. Essentially I'd like to find someone to spend time with that INCLUDES the FWB, but also understand not everyone fits that mold. Should it go into something more, cool... if not, cool too. No objection to a relationship, but realistically takes someone special to make that commitment.

I like confident men (not asshole confident). Men who know who they are and don't play games, tell lies to venerate themselves or momma's boys... honesty, being GENUINE and a sense of humor is a MUST, along with being D/D free (as am I ), good kisser, have a sex drive, know what romance is, open minded, fun and playful and have at least a couple of the same interests as me. Can't have "everything" in common... what fun is that? Again, qualities in a person can't be limited, there are so many layers to a person. Physically, I am open... but honestly, have never been attracted to extremely thin or obese men... sort of middle of the road. Yes, hygiene is a must... don't want to be dealing with Pigpen from the Peanuts comic strip. Ick. And btw... if you're far away, more than 25+ miles, consider the possibility an ongoing fwb may not work. LOL

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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