Widowed, looking for friendship first and take it from there. I've been here a couple years now. I've met some very nice and real people but have also met some from the otherside as well. Cheaters, liars and you know who you are. I'm not looking to be someone's girl on the side so if you are married or attached, PLEASE do not even bother to contact me as it will be a waste of your time. I am not judging in any way but I know what I do not want.
I'm not the best at talking about myself so please bare with me. I'm a short 4'11", blonde, attractive single woman. I do have pics posted and they are fairly recent. I enjoy simple things, a movie in, a movie out, the beach, water, camping, a glass of wine ( which I know absolutely nothing about), hanging out with friends for cookouts, backyard bonfires and such. I guess that I am very much a country girl at heart. I live in a modest home in the woods just outside of town and I love it here and probably would not relocate at this point in my life. (8-18-09)

My Ideal Person: Again, I am not very good in the description department. I am looking for that friend that becomes the ONE. He should be honest, trustworthy, open minded and have the ability to hold his own in the world. He should NOT have small children, I've raised my own, it's time to not be a Mom to small children. I do not mind if he smokes or drinks socially. If you drink more than 2 nights a week, you are not a social drinker. No drugs other than the occasional 420. Some of my children live in my home, he must be able to deal with that.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Alabama

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, Under a waterfall

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Fisting

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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