I am a happily married, inexperienced bisexual, and tentatively polyamorous woman in a non-monogamous marriage seeking to explore my sexuality, enjoy my kinks and fetishes, discover compatible people who share them, establish lasting friendships, and enjoy the adventures that come with the alternative lifestyles.

My Ideal Person: I'm not an extremely picky person, and I don't exactly have an " ideal " partner. I do, however, know exactly what I absolutely, under no circumstances, do not want. Please bare in mind that while I used to be many of the things on this list, I have since grown and come to realize that I no longer wish to be associated with them. So, with that in mind, let's get straight into the harsh, judgmental, and non-negotiable list and see who's left standing.

Alcoholics
I'm stone cold sober during encounters and I expect the same from my partners. I will walk away from an encounter if I think for a moment, or discover, that you've had a drink or twelve drinks. To those of you who are social drinkers: I understand that there are people who want, or need to use alcohol to relax and curb their inhibitions. If you wish to meet and enjoy an encounter with me, then you will need to forgo the alcohol.

Cheaters
I do not cheat, and I expect the same from everyone else. If you cheat on your partner ( The person who's supposed to be your confidant, best friend, and lover. ) how do you honestly expect anyone else to trust you about anything? I've heard all the excuses ( And I mean all of them... ) for cheating, and I refuse to enable you. Please save us both the trouble and just go away.

Contaminated
I am STD/STI free and fully intend to stay that way. I not only expect you to be STD/STI free, but to engage in practicing safer sex. In an effort to protect myself, and my husband, I will provide condoms / dental dams / gloves for use during encounters with me – there will be no exceptions. If you have a latex allergy, please let me know so I can provide latex alternative protection. Also, if I see evidence or common signs of infections I will walk away.

In regards to STI/STD Test Results:

I can and will provide recent ( Defined as my most recent test after my husband's or my own most recent encounter. I cannot afford to keep a 3-6 month collection up to date, especially when I may go a year without having sexual relations with anyone other than my husband. ) negative test results upon request ( I expect the same from you. ), but I will not use them to make a decision to go bareback with you... Test results only tell me that you were negative at the time of the test – not the night you and I decide to have a sexual encounter.

Drug Addicts
I don't use drugs, whether during an encounter or not. I don't want to associate with people who use them – at all. It doesn't matter to me if you only use rarely, seldom, often, or daily. I don't care if the substances should or shouldn't be legal. I don't care if you consider the drug to be harmful or not. If I suspect you're using, or discover that you are holding – I will walk away from the encounter. The facts are that recreational drugs are illegal, and especially dangerous in situations where BDSM is being practiced. I'm not going to place my life in the hands of someone who's mind is altered by substances, nor am I going to risk going to jail for your drugs.

Gangbangers
No, I'm not referring to the good kind of gangbanger – a person who participates in gang bangs, trains, and the like. I'm talking about people, of any race, who think the " thug life " is something worth living, or has merit. Please lose the poor mentality and join the rest of us in adulthood.

Homophobes
I am a supporter of the LBGT community. If you have an issue with homosexuality, bisexuality, transexuality, and/or any other sexuality then please do not bother contacting me. This also applies to straight men, single or not, who have an issue being in the same room as other nude men, performing when other men are present, or are scared to death of the idea that their cock and balls may touch another cock and balls during multiple partner activities.

Liars
I'm an honest person, and I expect everyone else to be as well. If you lie ( This includes large or small lies. ), and I find out I will have nothing further to do with you. If you're great at lying there's a good chance I won't find out, but everyone slips up eventually. Save us both the trouble and just move on to your next target, or ideally out of alternative lifestyles.

Racists
I'm not racist. I sleep with people whom I find attractive, or offer something I desire regardless of their skin color. If you're a racist or have an issue with that then kick rocks.

Smokers
I do not smoke, and do not wish to be around second-hand smoke. If you smoke, please refrain from doing so near me. Please also carry mints and body spray as the smell can be quite noxious and overpowering.

Soldiers
Due to the combination of the ticking clock of deployments, my own employment, personal responsibilities, and my inability to have sudden onset encounters I will not be meeting active duty service members for encounters.

Theists
If you are a Theist ( As opposed to being a Gnostic/Agnostic Atheist. ) please keep your religion to yourself. We are not here to be converted to theism regardless of the denomination and dogma. If you have an issue with your partner(s) being Atheists then please seek companions elsewhere.

Uncategorized
I'm probably being naive thinking that people will be honest about their personality flaws, but just in case, if any of the following words apply to you please do not contact me. If you need any examples, please don't hesitate to ask.

• Close-Minded
  
• Disrespectful
  
• Inconsiderate
  
• Impatient
  
• Rude
  
• Selfish

Whew! After that list, and a little bit of luck those of you who are still with me are the cream of the crop. We're not done yet though... Please visit my blog here on Adult FriendFinder: ForeverMoonglow for further vital reading on what I require from people who wish to have an encounter with me. I know I said ' please ', but you really need to go read – it'll save you and I both a lot of headaches and frustration.

Also, don't forget my answers to the additional questions ( Also located in my blog. ) at the link shown at the bottom of this section – it includes even more information about me and the things I'm in to, and not into.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
None.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Latex, Massage, Exhibitionism, Outdoor Play

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Yes, I have fantasized about celebrities -- a wide variety
of them for various reasons. However, many of the fantasies
are fleeting, and not something I'm hung up on.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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