I’m a married guy who secretly longs for sex with men. I’m very cautious and insist on discretion. I’m attractive, in shape, average build, and am outwardly a successful and conservative businessman. I’m respectful, and generally a good guy. I'm a giver and very much like oral. But I do like receiving too! I don't get out much and it's been many years since I've enjoyed another guy. But that desire is getting stronger and harder to resist. I won't jeopardize my marriage by taking too much risk, but my wife travels a lot, and when she's gone, I can play. If you're local and looking for the same, maybe we can see?

Min Idealperson Body shape/type doesn’t matter to me. Far more important is a good, decent person, who’s clean and understands discretion. My ideal would be a nearby guy in a similar situation and we could occasionally rendezvous. I would prefer somebody close to my age, or maybe even older.

I’m not looking for a one-time, or a roadside quickie. Nor am I looking for a relationship or to be a part of a player's repertoire. Truly, it would be casual friends with occasional benefits.