I'm hoping to meet some friends to have some fun with. While I'm not seeking a "relationship" in the full-blown sense of that word, and while I'm not anywhere near optimistic enough to think I might find one here, I'm not about to run away from the possibility, and certainly I won't object if the right per should come along. Really, though, I'm hoping to find a "friends who are lovers" situation ... you can call that "friends with benefits" if you want, and I won't object, but I'm not a big fan of that phrase. In short, I'm not especially interested in one-night stands or in sleeping with large portions of North America. But I'm open to a fairly wide variety of commitment levels (or "strings," if you want to use another term that I, perally, would prefer to try to avoid). Let's enjoy each other, both in bed and out!

My Ideal Person I'm looking for a woman to have some fun with. (Or, as the song goes: "I'm looking for a smart woman in a real short skirt / A smart woman who knows how to flirt.") (Bonus points for identifying singer and title on that song.) It's difficult, though, to say exactly what I'm looking for, because it depends so much on the individual person. Something that I find attractive in one person might not be as attractive in another, for example. The whole, in other words, is not merely the sum of its parts. I definitely enjoy oral sex, both giving and receiving, but I guess you'll need to judge for yourself whether I'm any good at it. I'm certainly willing to explore, and I'm open to trying some new things. I'd like to meet someone with more or less similar desires. Hope to hear from you!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Jimmy Buffett, Yo-Yo Ma, Dan Maher, Great Big Sea

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Miranda Otto, who played Eowyn in the Lord of the Rings movies.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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