Control? Perhaps, control is very important, it defines much of what we do, but it should not the motive for actions.
Power? Power, closely linked to control is equally important. Power is something that every Dominant hungers for, and it is a search for power that motivates Us, that drives Us forward, that defines Us. However, pure pursuit of power? Very dangerous?
Inflicting pain, physically or mentally? Now there are some who call themselves Doms who are out there that are in it simply to cause pain. Personally, I'd prefer to just call them assholes. Does that mean I shy away from causing physical or mental pain? Of course not, but it should be a means, not an end.
I could list other factors that go into my being a Dominant, but I'll cut to the chase... what draws me to Dominance is the trust, the connection. Its pushing hard enough on your limits to move them but gently enough so that you aren't quite sure of the changes inside of yourself until you're begging for the very thing you were so scared of. Its taking exactly what I want from you regardless of what you say but having you know full well that you want everything I give you.
A healthy D/s relationship has an undeniable vanilla aspect. If I can't talk to you and laugh with you, what's the point?
My Ideal Person I am not a looks driven person. In my experience I have often noted that most of the beautiful people have a uniquely HIGH amount of drama. So as long as you have good hygiene, and at least dress presentable, its ALLLL good. You must be as honest with me as you are with yourself since I have no time to deal with lies. women who are ladies in the living room and freaks in the bedroom are my favorite. . Seeking a woman to help inspire me with more interesting
What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
TV On The Radio Sublime Notorious B.I.G. David Bowie
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A rollercoaster, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Food Play, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Latex
What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, A little of each
Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.
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