I guess first I should say that I'm 49, (but definitely don't act or feel like I am), with a medium build, about 90 kg's and about 5'7" or 170 cm, with silver-grey hair, I'm tattoo-free, with green-brown eyes with a mo and a small beard, but otherwise clean-shaven, including the playground. Very Bi curious, and have 'experimented' a few times, but don't let that put you off; as much fun as it was, and it was plenty, I can live without it. I can and will do 'No Strings Attached' relationships if they're what's needed, but I have to say I find they aren't as satisfying as the whole deal. I'm living alone in Hornsby so I can host, with weekends free to meet. As to how I look, I can say that I'm no George Clooney or Brad Pitt, but I'm definitely no horror-head either I enjoy getting out and about, spending time with friends over good food and good conversations. I'd like to meet a woman who can appeal to me with her intelligence, her quick wit and her wide knowledge of life and the world in general. Yes, I must admit she has to be physically appealing to me as well, but don't believe all men - me included - always ONLY go for the Super-Models & Barbie Dolls of this world. An attractive confident woman who clearly takes pride in the way she looks and dresses and has a sense of style will always stand out from a crowd in my eyes. I'm a sucker for perfume, and if she wears lingerie, well.....if both those things about her are French, then I'm always very very impressed..... But, even with all that, I should also add here, if a woman is plainly overweight then she just won't do it for me. Sorry, but as this is my forum to say exactly what I'm seeking, the way I want to say it, so no apologies. Call me shallow if you like, ladies, but no; it won't happen if you're plainly overweight. I will always appreciate a gorgeously figured woman - of any racial or ethnic heritage, and on that subject, it just seems to me, based on what I see wherever I seem to go, that women of Asian heritage seem to look after themselves physically so much better than so many Caucasian women I see. Diet? Genetics ? I dunno...... Yes, there are lots of stunningly attractive women of [B]all[/B] types, obviously, and I have to say yes I will be happy to meet with anyone - single or couple or group - who has a profile here, if we both think we may be suited , but based personally on just the numbers of slim and shapely attractive women that I see, where it comes to meeting a single woman, I'm at least 55% inclined to opt for an Asian woman. I don't rule out Caucasian ladies at all, but I simply don't see as many of you around, who would seem to be the type of partner I'd like to meet. And as for the ladies who wink or hotlist or message me from overseas, thank you; I'm flattered. Some of you look and must surely be beautiful, but it's actually rather pointless for both you and me unless you're either already DownUnder here in Ozzy-stralia, or you can get yourself here....... In any case, I would be very happy to meet any woman - or a couple, or a group - with a profile here, who would be willing to take things as they come, while we (all) get to know each other. Yes I can and will be discreet if the situation requires, but by all means, if there's a sexual spark between us - or between all of us, if you're part of a couple or a group - then I'm OK with jumping right in......And hopefully you (all) are too.. I've been single for a long time. Why ? I wish I knew...too bloody choosy, I suppose ? Maybe my speil above - if you're still reading - has pissed you off, ladies? Well - sorry if it has, but as I say, this site is for putting your wishes out there, as they are, and taking your chances. You're perfectly within your rights to state your own wishes on your own profile exactly the way you wish, but on here, these are my wishes. Up to now, I guess I never found a woman witty and silly and attractive and smart and sexy enough to click with me. I also see plenty of contact websites telling me there are so many people successfully hooking up and having great physical fun that I have to try getting some for myself. Life's a banquet and I've seemingly been on starvation rations for way too long...... Hopefully that'll change with this little effort you're reading now. If I've piqued your curiosity, then please feel free get those fingers typing, eh ? Don't wait for me to contact you; take the initiative. What have you got to lose besides your boredom and frustration? We both - or all - might just have a heap of fun !!

My Ideal Person I don't really have a clear picture of the type of woman I'd like to meet thru this, but I should say up front that she should NOT smoke. Especially after any fun in the sack......Smoking - at all - is a dealbreaker for me.

I also know she would HAVE to be VERY intelligent, VERY open-minded - not just about sex, but about life in general - with a great sense of humour tuned toward the offbeat and unexpected silly things life can chuck at you when you're looking the other way, and be able to laugh at herself as well as (hopefully) me.

She'd most likely be aged near to my own age, or otherwise btw. mid to late 30's to 40's, maybe even younger if she's truly exceptional - and with a slim to reasonable figure. I don't mind a few curves as long as you're in proportion and not overweight.

A pretty or more accurately an attractive face, and, no, sorry, I can't really explain that, I can only really "know" when I've seen one. A good proportionate figure is a must, too....I've no preference for hair colour, breast size, eye colour, skin colour - any at all; I don't care. Or race, either, really.....All that I ask is that if English isn't your mother tongue, you can communicate in English well. Relationships are hard enough, and lets face it - communication is key. If we can't do that well, it will be so much harder to make anything happen properly.

I have no real sexual hangups, and to be absolutely honest, I have quite a few kinks we could (all) have enormous fun indulging, and I have to say I'm very willing to try ANYTHING that's legal that you may want to suggest we try "Boudoir-wise". Not that it has to always take place in the bedroom......Equally, I'd appreciate a similarly open minded attitude to sex on your part too. So many ladies I've met seem to be able to talk the talk but when the time comes, can't walk the walk. That will be another very important quality she will need to have....

I'm not averse to an attached woman who only wants a physical fling either, and as I mentioned earlier I can be discreet if needed, but I would insist that if you're married or attached, I am given absolute PROOF that HE - or SHE, but definitely your partner, whatever gender - knows what you're up to. I will NOT cuckold anybody who isn't already into being cuckolded. Jealousy is not going to make me a statistic for the Police or the Coroner !! Hell - invite them along; the more the merrier - and hornier.

I must admit that I'd rather not have to get to know any children in the whole process either, but if we meet, and you've got kids, then so be it; I can live with that.

Anyway, I can't really think of much else which probably should be here, so I'll leave it at that.

Thanks.

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So I guess it's all up to you now ladies.........And just remember - cooking and massage are both skills that like so many others, including sex, even if you never forget them totally, still need LOTS of regular practice to keep at their best - so I hope to hear from you.

Thanks

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
O.K. You really want to know eh ? Sorry. You'll have to meet me in person and find out. Some things a gentleman just doesnt tell....

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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