[B][SIZE 2][COLOR indigo]I'm playful, even a little zany sometimes - easy going most of the time, very independent and professional -sometimes a little demanding and a little moody. I enjoy listening to good music, grilling steaks on the patio, a nice bottle of Chardonnay, and fun, flirty, private conversation. I can be a little unpredictable and challenging. I'm down-to-earth and open-minded. I *do* believe in the "Golden Rule." I *do* have extreme moods from time to time. I *do* spend time with my animals, my gardens, my home hobbies, my family, and my friends. I don't want drama. My wants are simple: care, understanding, and honesty. I enjoy long, lazy days filled with stress-free playful fun and frolicking in my gardens, but it's difficult for me to refuse an invitation for a weekend adventurous getaway to historical and meaningful places. I enjoy written expression, and many of my life's reflections and observations can be found in my blogs.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/B][SIZE 2][/SIZE][SIZE 2][/SIZE][I][/I]

My Ideal Person

I'm looking for a relationship with someone who enjoys full-figured, feminine, sexy types. I enjoy those who are honest about their feelings. I seek deeper levels of intimacy and a real relationship. I don't appreciate the one-night stand mentality. I think it is very OUTMODED and lacks spiritual and intellectual depth. I like to get to know a man over lunch or dinner, then if there is a connection, make plans for more adult interactions. I'm fond of fluffy soft pillows, softy scented candles, and a little soft rock. I'm not looking to get married, or to relocate. I don't want to ride in your BMW, and I am not flying to Paris with you. I might go out fishing with you if the weather is good. ~smile

Addendum: If you have difficulty communicating your intentions and goals in a succinct and concise manner, don't understand the dynamics of open-minded relationships and being sensitive to others feelings, please move on to the next profile on your search list.

Je parle un peu francaise. J'ai l'edition une..*Larousse Gastronomique. J'aime beaucoup chocolat!

I'm extremely playful, creative and experimental, and I appreciate a man who enjoys the art and ingredients that make for sensual lovemaking.

I am uncomfortable with attached or married men cheating on their partners. I am very discreet, but that is not a synonym for deception.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Folgelberg & Wiseburg, Clapton, Hendrix, Chesney, Culbertson, Sade...most everything in between

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
It's just before dawn in the mountains, the sun is creeping up slowly. It's a cool morning. The birds begin to sing. Butterflies float along the grassy areas. A gurgling creek winds its way around a clearing below my view, I'm on a soft goose down blanket with some comfy pillows outside a small rustic cabin...soft, misty rain quenches my skin while my lover kisses my neck and shares an intimate conversation with me before we make love.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Mutual Masturbation, Passionate kissing for hours..., Fingers running through my hair...;)

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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