Single, cute black female, looking for some adult fun! When I am not working (which is often), I enjoy concerts, plays and cultural events and festivities. I also enjoy traveling (nationally and globally). Although I am a chunky lady, I do workout! I box mostly, but when I can fit it into my schedule, I also participate in zumba and socamotion. While I may never be a size 2, I do try to be active.

My Ideal Person Who is my ideal gentleman? A person who is well read, intelligent, respectful of women and a woman's agency to be sexual (or not). Slut shaming (or on the other extreme, calling a woman frigid) is not cool or cute.

Also, I need a guy that does not use bitch, ho or slut as an adjective or noun to describe women. THIS IS NON-NEGOTIABLE.

Bonus points to any guy who can be funny without being offensive (jokes involving sexism, racism, homophobia, ableism or any other isms is not funny, sorry). I like to laugh, but not at the expense of marginalized people.

Also, a guy has to be a non-smoker (I absolutely hate the smell of smoke), drug and disease free and someone who is not a heavy drinker(<---I have my reasons for the last one). Seeking someone between the ages of 33-45.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage, squirting

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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