sweetbjames 51 / M
"Looking for interested and available BBWs"
East Bay, California, United States
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Member Since: May 13, 2011

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sweetbjames 51/M
East Bay, California
Oops I haven't updated my status in months!
I'm a quiet, shy, cerebral type. Not a jack of all trades, but I'm a king of a few. I might not talk much at first. But keep switching subject and you'll find something that I can hold a conversation about!

Going to be headed to Las Vegas for a week after the new year.

My Ideal Person I might as well put all my cards on the table. I've met a lot of nice people here on AdultFriendFinder. Some have remained very good friends with me for decades, even from my old profile. And I still hope to meet more. But even if this update chases more people away from me that it attracts, here it goes...

I need a big woman. I need a BIG woman! And not just any big woman. I need a woman who is big in the thighs, hips, and butt. I am looking for a "big-assed" woman.

Why? Because over time I figured out that's what I really want. That's the type of woman I'm attracted to. And I'm talking about physical attraction of course. For better or worse, we men think with our dicks first, and leave our other brain to sort out the details. If anything happens, I am open to it. But fair warning, I'm going to be looking at your butt.

***WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. ***

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Meet a friend at a movie matinee. Nobody in the theater but
us. We wait fro the movie to start then start fondling and
fingering each other. By the end of the movie we've
had sex a few different times in a few different positions.
Just before the lights come back on we clean up and go our
separate ways.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, A swimming pool or hot tub

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Anal Sex, Light Bondage, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 51 / male
  • East Bay, California, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women
Birthdate: September 23, 1965
Marital Status: Prefer not to say
Height: 6 ft 4 in / 193-195 cm
Body Type: Ample
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I don't drink at all
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Race: Black
Male Endowment: Long/Thick
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Black
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Brown
Glasses or Contacts: None