A mutual trust, genuine respect and a shared mindset are key. Though a spanking can be erotic and is often a form of sexual foreplay my interest are more towards the mental connection made by surrendering, submitting to and accepting the spanking you would want to give. Willing to explore your desire to be in control, release your stress and frustration after a long day or just satisfy your curiosity. Open minded to most forms of related play and interaction with no strings attached as long as hard limits are respected. However, I am not looking for someone to change my life or alter my behavior in day to day life.

My Ideal Person Playful, creative and intelligent with a sense of humor to be able to deal with my sarcasm. Dominant but not abusive or overly egotistical. Let's play, enjoy and have fun.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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