sunnygirl129 58 / F
"Kind, happy, sensual, and a positive attitude about life"
Missoula, Montana, United States
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sunnygirl129 58/F
Missoula, Montana
Let's laugh while we play. Sex is fun!
UPDATE November 2016:

I am compelled to add this to my profile: If you voted for Trump, there's no way I will feel a connection to you. Common ideology with my lover really matters to me. Really.

When I log on, I'm primarily just looking randomly at profiles and photos and reading blogs. Although I'm very open to the right situation, I don't have a lot of faith that I will find it here. (This is not a commentary on the site itself - merely how well I know what I want and what gets my attention.....)
I am very selective and definitely looking for something with substance; much more than just sex. Not committed, or with visions of a long future together, but a lover and friend for all sorts of things other than just sex. (A classic FWB situation ) A connection, shared interests outside the bedroom, and ability to have meaningful conversation is essential. A love of kissing, touching, affection and playful sex is a must. I want intimacy and the kind of passion that is fueled by our connection. I'd rather go without than have something less than what I seek. I have low expectations for finding what I want on this site, to be honest. (Though I have, throughout the years, had numerous solid relationships via this site.) I'm attracted to very specific types, which are impossible to describe, but I know when I see. It's definitely NOT all about looks, either. Read more details below before writing, please.

I'm not looking for a performance; rather, a fun and sexy connection.

Please at least read the basics in the next paragraph before you write.

Your face, your personality and your ideals are very important of course, but I'm only attracted to guys who are lean and fit. My body is far from perfect and I don't expect a ripped bod, nor am I attracted to huge muscles, but I strive to stay fit and healthy, so I like my lovers to be lean. Hard, flat male bellies make me crazy with desire! Although body type is essential to me, I do NOT care how tall you are, how big your cock is (although I gotta say...!!!) how much hair you have, how much money you have or what you drive, or whether or not you shave, trim, or go natural -all of which seem to be imperatives for many women. I do know instantly upon meeting face to face if you have the "look" that does it for me, and 30 minutes of face to face conversation is enough for me to know if I'm interested in pursuing more, which is why I like to meet face to face as soon as possible after establishing mutual interest. I'm very four twenty friendly and really enjoy sharing that with my lovers. Face to face conversations are the way that I like to get to know somebody. Chatting online is a complete waste of time for me; talk is cheap. If the initial attraction is there, I like to cut to the chase and meet for a drink or coffee and conversation to gauge chemistry. If we're a good match, what's the point in chatting and emailing endlessly when we could be having fun? I'm completely mellow and happy, so drama is unthinkable to me. I will always respond to emails, even if I'm not interested, so don't hesitate to write. (Common courtesy isn't very common on this site.) Poor spelling and punctuation make a really bad impression on me. It's like fingernails on a chalkboard to me.

I'm not at all shy when it comes to sex, but there has to be a connection. Although I'm not monogamous, I'm not looking just to get laid, nor am I looking for one night stands. I absolutely adore men and I want on-going friendships that include more than just sexual play. I have to like you and respect you well enough to spend non-sexual time together too. Sex is delicious, but I'm not one dimensional. I need to enjoy good conversation and laughs with my lovers; you'll find me really easy to talk to and easy to be with, in general. I'm very loving, sensual and attentive. I'm also very selective, and I respect men who are also choosy and not desperate. I make no apologies for my preferences.

What you see and read is what you get with me. I'm down to earth and unpretentious. I don't try to impress anybody and I'm turned off by guys who work hard at trying to impress me. I like ordinary guys who are comfortable just being who they are. I can see through b.s.

I feel the need to make a statement about the choices I have made in my life and how it's affected me. I have NEVER even come close to having been abused in any way by anyone. I cannot begin to imagine the horror that would go with an abusive relationship. It seems such a common theme, which is why I feel the need to make mention of it. I do not have a bitter or distrustful bone in my body.

I have several pet peeves about guys who write, but maybe the most annoying is when guys write and tout their sexual prowess and make claims with the assumption that all I've ever had are lousy lovers. That couldn't be less true. I've been "blessed" with countless excellent lovers. (I'm especially NOT charmed by guys who go on about how much they love to deliver pleasure, how they're not selfish lovers, how they love to eat pussy, etc. EVERY lover I've ever had fits into that category, so making those kinds of statements does not endear you to me.) Not only am I annoyed when guys attempt to make themselves out to be a lover better than I've ever had, it's a complete turn off. This isn't a contest, guys. If I like you and am attracted to you, we'll be hot together! There will be lots of touching, stroking and making you feel desired. Guaranteed.

Here's the long(er) version:

I am seeking * fit * lovers who are also friends. The friendship component of "friends with benefits" is essential to me. Something beyond the physical/sexual attraction. Sex for the sake of sex is too shallow for me and not hard to find . I want more. I have to like - and respect - who you are and feel affection for you. I want to have interesting conversation. Trust me - I'm not needy, possessive, clingy or jealous - I've got a very full life of my own and I'm not asking for any commitments beyond a friendship - but there has to be more than just getting naked. NSA? The strings that I want attached are the same that I want attached to any friendship; honesty and respect. In other words, it's possible to have NSA AND a friendship that includes sex. The two concepts are not mutually exclusive in my world.

Sex is always better with repeat performances! If we enjoy each other and we're good together, then let's do it again and again. I'm extremely sexual and passionate, but it's never going to happen unless there's a strong mental connection for me that develops after the initial physical attraction. I know what I like and I know it when I see it! CHEMISTRY, ya know? Sex is one of the most delicious celebrations in life and one of the best ways in which I express myself, but it takes the right combination of looks, brains, and personality to ignite that fire in me. I have a very wild side, but I reserve details for guys who become my lovers. I crave the intensity of real intimacy that comes with discovery, friendship and affection..... Oh, and did I mention that I absolutely love to kiss?

My Ideal Person Happy, healthy, intelligent, easy-going, emotionally secure men who take good care of themselves (a LEAN build, please!) who would like to meet an unconventional, unpretentious, classy, kind, light hearted, smart, happy, sane, sassy, smart-ass, confident, healthy, disease-free, young-at-heart, liberal-minded woman who has been fortunate enough that there is no heavy baggage weighing me down. I've had a great life and healthy relationships with all of the men in my life; past and present, so I have no chips on my shoulder regarding men - or anything else, for that matter. Men are my absolute favorite creatures!

Extra points if you don't use "lol" in your correspondence!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Mutual Masturbation, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Sure, a little, but I see so many hot guys out and about in
Missoula that I don't need to fantasize about celebrities. Real and attainable
guys are hotter than celebrities.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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  • 58 / female
  • Missoula, Montana, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Men
Birthdate: December 9, 1958
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Widowed
Height: 5 ft 7 in / 170-172 cm
Body Type: Athletic
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I use some recreational drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Occupation: professional
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Agnostic
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children: No
Bra Size: 34 / 75 B
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Blonde
Hair Length: Medium
Eye Color: Brown
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses
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