spyder_ 58 / M
"Mildly searching"
Cave Creek, Arizona, United States
 
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spyder_ 58/M
Cave Creek, Arizona
Introduction
What the hell is one suppose to say here...I mean really... I looked at some of the other guys profiles on here... and damn... I really hope I am not coming off as a desperate, horny, "I will fuck anything that moves" middle aged loser....I'm not....LOL....I will be as honest as possible here....So you ask....why is he here?....I' ll get to that in a minute"......additionally...I won't be putting up a bunch of pic's of my Johnson...everybody here knows what a dick looks like so why add 1 more.......So who am I?...in many ways I am a typical white American male....I make a good living, have all the requisite toys... cars, boat, house, dogs... I am single and live alone. I don't have kids, but I do like them...(I have like a dozen nieces and nephews) I don't abuse children, women, old people or animals. I am respectful and considerate of others until they dictate otherwise.... On the not so typical side... I am pretty smart..., I have an uncommon amount of common sense....and as an added bonus I am usually fun and pleasant to be around, I am well read and can hold intelligent conversations, was brought up with impeccable manners...somewhat tarnished now. And I Truly enjoy being in the company of women.....So why am I here?... well I really enjoy sex...(like that's news) ....What am I in search of?....well... Friends...Sex...sex with friends.... Sexually I am very open-minded I enjoy just about everything ...I'm not specifically looking for a long term committed relationship (if it happens great)... not that we couldn't do dinner, see a movie... take a weekend road trip etc.... just nothing hard and heavy right now..... you know those male commitment issues...I am not looking for a one night stand either but I wouldn't turn down one of those fast, furious ..and it's over affairs... (remember I am Male)......So if you feel game...let me know...I am in good physical condition, clean and D&D free...very low key.... no pressure, will happily go at your pace. Sexually experienced... references...on request....and as much as I enjoy youth.... if you are say....under 30.... it probably won't work... older and wiser has certain merits and advantages.

My Ideal Person Hmmm.. well I have come to the conclusion that few people on AdultFriendFinder actually meet...there is the endless emailing ..which gets old fast…..the phone calls... but it seems that there are few really adventurous types out there... most, it seems want to chat about the fantasy but hesitate at even meeting for coffee .. at least not without a whole lot of prep and time put in... which ...from a woman's point of view I can understand...there are some truely mental types in the world and I don't blame you ladies at all for being very careful, although there are a lot fewer nut cases out there than the media would have you believe...But my main point being... I am not one of them...LOL....So....

so ...What I am searching for...hmmm... well it's pretty simple... I want a down to earth woman that is looking for some thin or no-strings attached experiences...and fun....This could include Singles... or couples... MFM... I enjoys 3 somes but I am very str8.....

Actually... I don't mind "strings' per se.... what I really mean.. is "un-complicated" and as I go along… a LTR seems more desirable than before…. With the right person of course..

I prefer a woman with a very high sex drive, willing to experiment and open-minded. Someone that we could hook up and explore the lifestyle together...as a team...and stop all this incessant looking..

I am not looking for the perfect body or a barbie type...please be h/w porportionate..as I am.... and a sense of humor is mandatory. I can be a tad irreverent... but never disrespectful... please No drama queens.... we're just out to have fun !!

I am not desperate for sex... and much prefer quality over quantity...I am open-minded and enjoy exploration and seek similar.

I am a non smoker and don't mind at all if you smoke,,, just not while having sex... that’s how fires start...lol

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, No force involved, but going to the limits,,,, everyone has different limits,,,,

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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Information
  • 58 / male
  • Cave Creek, Arizona, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight
Looking For:  Women or Couples (man/woman)
Birthdate: December 22, 1957
Relocate?: Yes
Marital Status: Single
Height: 5 ft 7 in / 170-172 cm
Body Type: Athletic
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I don't drink at all
Education: Prefer not to say
Occupation: Prefer not to say
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Spiritual
Have Children: No
Want Children: No
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Blonde
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Blue
Glasses or Contacts: None