So I have been on this site for a month or so. I have gotten a few winks and added a few friends to the friends list. I though at one point I was going to meet with someone but, in typical AFF meet fashion there was always that thing that came up for them at the last minute. Reconciliation with their significant other, or what have you. I find that it is frustrating when the site says someone is on IM but I open that page and they are not there. Does anyone know what that means? Does it mean that they WERE there sometime that day-week or year. I comment to gain points and use those points to become a fan only to find that that per hasn't been on the site for a few years... I always felt like just your normal average guy, was married for almost twenty years and kept my nose to the grindstone. I have no idea on how to just get out and meet people although I have an outgoing perality I find myself being shy. I guess I am sexually shy and find pushy people not to my liking. I am a firm believer that things should take time if in the long run you want them to be meaningful. There are a couple of turn offs as I don't drink or do drugs and prefer someone who doesn't do drugs. Light social drinking is about what I do, maybe some lemonade with Vodka when the weather is warm or an Old single malt when the weather changes. I do like to experiment with rope leather and other bondage devices but not required. Would love to have you on a leash but, all this is up to discussion. I would like to experiment, touch you stroke you who knows what else. Have never done it, tried once but that wasn't what they were interested in. I do smoke, hardly ever drink I would like to find someone to simply enjoy their company get to know them and relax around them. Someone to have an intelligent conversation and who inspires me to seek out the knowledge and answers to questions that might come up. Wow that sounds mystical. I do have pictures in my album, as well as there are attached pictures if you read my blog post. I will eventually find a nice intro picture but have nothing recent. Be safe...be well

我的理想對象: An intelligent open minded person to simply get to know. Maybe I should be on POF or Match, but need you to tell me if I am in the wrong place..

分享一個您最愛的性幻想。大聲說出來吧！:
I would love to meet an attractive woman and have her invite
me over. We are having a converstaion that turns into making
out... As I run my hands over her body and her small breasts
I find she has a little extra... I persuade her to o to her bedroom
and then we see what happens behind closed doors. I honestly
don't know how far I would go, but would be open....

您幻想在何處發生性關係呢?:
一張床., 一間電影院., 在游泳池或熱水澡桶., 一間旅館房間., 非特定場所.

什麼樣的性愛活動令您著迷？:
享受口交, 玩具 (振動器/人造陰莖/等。), 輕奴役, 打屁股

您尋找性伴侶時的主要條件？:
一樣的、相似的性癖好, 角色扮演的經驗 (體位；主從關係), 是否只侷限於性愛而無進一步發展, 願意討論與嘗試不同型態的性愛, 願意承諾自由的性關係

您曾體驗過網路性愛嗎?:
我試過，不過不太一樣。

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