UPDATE – 8/16/19 Please read through for what has been changed. First, I am off the market, If you see me on here it is because I am checking in on friends or something else. I am still looking for friends so if you want please contact. Second, As of January 16th I am going back to a standard user. I just can't afford it and with the fact that I found someone this profile isn't really needed. If you want to contact me, know I won't be able to see it. Also if you want to reach out to me: Flirt, Hotlist, Chat or anything else, I can't see you. It costs to do anything on this site and I can't do that. You can find me elsewhere but since this site will censor I can't tell you. Check out my blog for updates in that. [B]RULE #1 - If I contact you, I am looking to start a communication between us to find out how compatible we are. I am not looking for a one night stand, FWB or NSA. [/B] If you don't respond or respond with something sending me elsewhere, THAT is not communication that is laziness. It shows that you as an individual are too full of yourself to warrant my time. Don't come to me in the hopes of building up fans on other cam site. I am here to date and find someone to be with, not to follow someone who needs a diet of laxatives because they are full of sh*t. I am sorry but I am lose more and more of my patience and faith with dating sites every day. I am not one who enjoys the bars and clubs so it is very difficult for me to find someone. I really want to find someone who I can spend my life with as a partner in many ways. I know that many out there are not but it only takes one and so I will continue on weeding through the imbeciles and jerks who are and will be in the infinite loop of tagging every gurl they can. Please have some respect for me and I will give you that respect back. Give me none and I will turn my back on you so quickly to move on. I don't have time for people who have no self worth that they have to have others build it for them. I am versatile individual who has enjoyed being a bottom yet would not mind topping with the right per. I have figured out through my experiences that I am dominant and enjoy a lot of different fetishes I have learned. I am an inventive and fun per who is looking for someone who can not only enjoy things in the bedroom but also in life as a couple. I enjoy cooking, writing, playing video games and contemplating life, the universe, and everything. My belief in a creating a good relationship is to be honest and upfront about anything that is asked. I have seen many relationships fail due to the lack of communication. I generally feel that gaining a better understanding of someone will help to create a higher level of friendship. I enjoy the stories that are told by the per and learn through that to who they are and what they became. If you want to know more about me just ask. I am very open, friendly, and willing to talk. It just depends on what you ask.

My Ideal Person I generally like dating people close to my age but if you feel you can demonstrate that age does not matter to you I will consider it. I do see that many people of my own age or younger may understand more of what I talk about but anyone who can hold a conversation with me and bring something to it could show possibility.

The type of person I am looking for is a partner in life and an animal in the bedroom. I know that it is difficult to think of, but compared to most that are looking for a No Strings Attached relationship, I am looking for a relationship that could even go as far as a life partner. If you like the thought of that do not worry about approaching me, I am very nice and respectful unless the person is not. I am not a fetishist who is just looking to fill a fantasy. I do understand the life of someone who is going through transition but wish to find someone who is happy with the way they are. I am one who wants a personality to go with the look. I have been with different types and found what I enjoy and am comfortable with who I am. If you feel this is what you are looking for as well, I can’t wait to talk with you.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, My desk at work, A store dressing room, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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