shiforyou 53 / F
"submissive seeking long term relationship"
Bangor, Maine, United States
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Member Since: May 12, 2009

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shiforyou 53/F
Bangor, Maine

i discovered my submission in 2004 and officially entered the lifestyle in 2005. i know that i am still considered a newbie to some but it seems like a lifetime ago when i had a conversation with a gentleman online and he asked me if i were submissive. When i asked him what he meant by that he said, "never mind". lol So, i started an online search. Boy did the internet teach me a thing or two that night! As i started reading things just seemed to fall into place. Everything i read seemed as if it were written just for me. It all made perfect sense. Dreams danced off the pages and fantasies came to life. i suddenly felt whole - like someone out there knew me deep inside and had put into words what i could not express. What had been missing for so long had now been found. i was complete. My story may sound corny but all i know is that night changed my life forever. i knew i could not go back, and i didnt want to. i had found a new path, a new journey, a new meaning to life. i dont know who that gentleman was but i thank him deeply for helping me find my way.


i guess you could say i am a relatively quiet person - a bit shy. i have a great sense of humor, although a bit quirky, and i love a good laugh. i am respectful, loyal, honest and trustworthy. i try my hardest to be kind and treat others as i wish to be treated myself. In public i am a lady and in private i am, or can be, otherwise and when i serve i do so with great passion. With all that being said, i am not without fault. i carry some baggage, make mistakes, am often late and very forgetful. i am human.

i am seeking a long term relationship with a Dominant male and friendships. i do not wish to relocate or enter a poly relationship. Please be single.

Thank you,


My Ideal Person must be an experienced Dominant man preferably on the taller side. anywhere from a mature 40 year old to a young 60. i dont hunt, fish, 4-wheel or snowmobile so please keep that in mind.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Fisting, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 53 / female
  • Bangor, Maine, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Men
Birthdate: June 29, 1963
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Divorced
Height: 5 ft 7 in / 170-172 cm
Body Type: BBW
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Some college
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Agnostic
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children: No
Bra Size:
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Blonde
Hair Length: Long
Eye Color: Gray
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses
My Trophy Case: