Commitment-wise, I still have a lot of the world - and myself - to explore, and I don't want to be tied down. Sexually, I'm pretty open to a "friends with benefits" situation. The philosophy I live by is "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with." For me a perfect Friday night is hanging out with friends. For me a perfect date is dinner in so we can get to know each other better. I'm not changing my life, because things are great the way they are. I look forward to seeing how the online dating world works. If you contact me I might not reply immediately since I'm new to this and still a bit shy.