OMG! Just looked at this section my profile! Folks i am ery sorry! i should have updated this area ages! ago! well, about me, have been exploreing life as a dominant, possibly heading for mastery with the right sub, well time will tell on that. have been doing a we bit of introductory advice/guiding for new folks such as myself, lol ( yep even after , gak! going on my ?3rd? yr now as a full open dominant, lol yep! gad i have felt so free it does seem longer! lol) now where were we? live in nothwest bc, most of the time, terrace actually. but Boston bar is it for a few weeks, lol love the lower mainland! and the edge of the drybelt here is fantastic! lol, well, as for how am i dom? lol well for me its all about personal choice. and also for we who are dominants, about the love we have to share, but also the choice to be RESPONSABLE, ... MOSTLY.. lol. back home, have been doing wee bit of 'clean and repair' the past few , urf! yrs, lol, seems we have a fair amount of grunts burning good people, who are jsut trying to find caring loving folks who will give them what they need. tho.. if NO-ONE takes the time to find out what those needs are... lol, ah well! hmm, so some ask??what about DISPLINE?- i enjoy a good seesion as much as anyone, but i have to say out load for all to hear, i DEF prefer to operate in THE MIND AND HEART FIRST! as for most of to enjoy our Life, that is where we LIVE! lol its all about the Choice, Will you submit to me? Will i make you find your dreams? will i make them come true? will your tears be of love and joy? will you never feel shame or sorrow? will htere be nuaght but joy and freedom in your soul? sharing of oyurself and selfhonesty? taking all i give?-giving all i can take? lol well lets have a few dinners, and see what happs! hte worst that we have is a great time, and learn from each other, lol, tho if you bring me that wee lil bit of leather, lol, i have several uses for it! lol bring your own oil, hate to set off a rash! makes some welts very itchy! lol on to tyhe next quetion, lol

My Ideal Person well, as you may have noted from my last lil novel, lol,
a person who is honest wiht herself, yepers its ladies nite here at the barn! lol
who is looking for a responcible dominant. ( and i a Top/Dom?Master - welli am stillsearching out myself too, but , i can state UTTRLY while i will def find out 'your' views, opinions, prefrences, goals, needs, dreams. mine are prime! Yet, 'your' happines, is my own, for i msut have Your Smile! Your Laugh! Your Squirms of Delite! for without allthese things! My days are not enrichened! and i am a very SELFISH male! i want all the joy i can find! i want to share my own joy, confidence, lol hell my partys out wiht the band! i want ot shoe off your MANNERS! I want you to Show yourself off to everyone we meet! radiant and glowing! lol making every woman JELOUS! nad every man Weeping with desire! lol,
after all its all , ITS ALLIN GOOD CLEAN FUN!
ah! i hear in the background, but what about what "you" look like?
hell! looks are jstu our outer cover! now while i am not into 'very bbw' i like a few lbs to cuddle too, but if you cant go for a 30 min walk, play a few hrs of tennis, or just go walk abot at a fair/ msuic festival (( i love going to those! you hear the grandest songs around the fires at nite!!! lol )
hen we def are not a match!
also i helps if you can fit on a 'Bike, i do ride from time to time, and "you" will def be wrapped around em as we head out! lol,
apart from that , as im 6'4", height, apart from under 5', lol, sorry ladies, do have to be a bit practical, but i have been suprised before, lol, its jsut that i love to dance too, and well, under 5', well its seems to turn to all elbows and knees... lol,
all else is open for negotiation. as an ideal tho?
hmmmmm.....
need that Smile first!
Then the Laugh!
if you happto be 5'7" - 6'2" slim to statuesque ( lol hope i spelled that one right, its - gak! 4.00 am and i really should wrap this up!
lol,
umm, a sence of humour is a MUST! as i have one about a mile wide! lol
carlin!
pytin!
winters!
williams( robin!)
ron james! ( a canadian comic ! folks find him! hes in george carlins class all the way!)
oh! lewis black!
and triamph the insult comic dog! lol
bobby slatoon,
hmm,
oky thats enuf!lol
oh i also sing! out load!
walking down the stret!
nd at karoke bars!, tho hte past 3 yrs its mostly been at legion events,
(( happy and proud member of the Royal Canadian Legion, Branch 13, Terrace BC.))
well kiddies, hope that gives a bit o info, eveif if i dont hear from you,
Plz! take this bit of advice!
PLAY SAFE!!!!!
A QUALITY person, of any stripe, will respect oyuand wait for yu to be comfortable, (( not just a few hrs EITHER! ))or will corospond before a personal meet and greet! its its seems rushed! THIS IS A WARNING SPOT!
IF YA MET THIS 'PERSON' AT THE (STORE/MARKET/BAR/COFFEBAR/PERSONAL PARTY/FROM CHANCE)
WOLD YOU LET 'HIM' INTO YOUR LIFE? BLOOD?
sorry darlings, but those are the kinds of situations i have had to 'council/repair' up here! and it makes me so mad! and sad too, and a bit disapointed,
ust becuse we are being, as honest as we can , with ourselves and each other, that doenst mean we have to thro JUST AND REASONABLE CAUTION to the winds!
oky, *deep breath** end of rant! lol
an gonna go take my tired, sunburnt ass to bed, lol,
i do hope you all have a grand time here at alt, i def am! keep yourselfs well, plz remameber all of us are worthwhile people, deserving of repect and love! SO KEP YOURSELVES SAFE!
I NEVER WANT TO HAVE TO WACH ANOTHER PERSON GET -- BLOODY WELL !!!SEWN!!!! UP AGAIN! never!
if i hear it happ to one of you!! ill get out the nine tails, wiht the CAPS, and by god! you wont be so FOOLISH again!
lol, plz dont make me go there, lol, my arm gets so tired after the 35fth stroke! lol, soides, i prefer sigle strips, , ohky.. now i rally have to bed! nite all! thnks for staying so long! (( hands out a glass of nice chardonay, and sees 'you' to the door, ))
Hae a Grand Day!
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