Note that we are non-paying members, so we cannot email you or friend you... but we can [I]reply[/I] to your emails and friend requests. So if you want to get to know us, you'll have to do more than just flirt or hotlist us. As a matter of fact, we can only see a very small portion of your profile, so please be forgiving if you have stated some preferences in your profile (such as No Couples), and we put you in our hotlist or something to try to get your attention, because we can only see about 6 words of your profile. We're a good-looking couple, approaching middle age so not as thin as we used to be but not overweight. She really puts it in the right places, and is nicely voluptuous. She is bi-curious, with emphasis on the bi. We are still pretty inexperienced with swinging; we just recently (October 2013) had our first full-swap experience, and can't wait to continue exploring! We do need to be friends first. So far we have never played on the first meeting with a couple; we need to like the other couple and both of us need to be comfortable with both of the other couple (or lady). She would love for him to be with another another woman, especially if she could watch, but she has given him a hall pass. If the other lady is interested, she would LOVE to join in. Her fantasy is to watch him with another woman, or for him to be with another woman privately and then tell her about it later (with pictures if the other woman is OK with it). She fantasizes about kissing and giving oral sex to a woman. He is open to giving her a hall pass to be with another woman, but both would prefer if he were there as well, at least at first. Neither he nor she is comfortable giving her a hall pass to be with other men; at this time she only plays with men if he is there, too. We're fairly intelligent, and would probably be more comfortable with people of at least average or better intelligence; but we're also somewhat shy at first, so more importantly, we would be most comfortable with very open, social people who already are comfortable with swinging.

My Ideal Person We're looking for a lady or couple who is sweet-tempered and fun in real life, but who in fantasy life is bold and sexually adventurous. Maybe you could show us something new that you like in the bedroom, and maybe we could show you a few things. Sex is as much mental as it is physical, so the way you talk is as important as the way you look. There does need to be physical attraction, but if you're HWP (height-weight proportionate), personality goes a long way.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Todd Snider, The Who, Stones, Beatles, Pearl Jam, Dave
Brubeck, Miles Davis, Harry Connick, Sinatra

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
For her to go down on another person while he has sex with
her.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage, Exhibitionism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Unsure/Prefer not to say

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