We are 48 and 54 but look younger and live life with a much younger attitude. We are very much in love, very secure in our relationship and are partners and best friends. We are both educated professionals with a great sense of humor, down to earth, and very easy going. She is 5'7", 120 lbs. and he is 5' 11", 185 lbs. We work out 3-4 times per week and are in pretty good shape. We are disease free and insist on the same for anyone we meet. We are crazy about anything to do with the water and sun...like boating on the Chesapeake Bay, for example. We also enjoy most athletic and outdoor activities, including skiing, golf, basketball, football, etc. We love to go out and have a great time listening to all kinds of music, dancing, and having a drink or two. We enjoy fine dining and fine wine as well as a cold beer and a burger on the deck.

My Ideal Person We have been enjoying this very leisurely for a few years and have had a couple of experiences that we really enjoyed. We are looking forward to experiencing more. We are looking for couples that we can develop a relationship with. It is important to us to be friends with and respect the couple we play with. We want to be able to enjoy the other couple socially as well as sexually.

We are both straight. Our experience to date has been swapping with couples and we have enjoyed both separate and same room. We have also enjoyed MFM 3-somes (no male interaction)and would be interested in experiencing more in the right situation.

We enjoy the entire sensual experience. We love to flirt, dance, tease, kiss, and have a lot of fun enjoying all the foreplay. She really loves to be given massages and he loves to give them. We are both into oral and neither of us have any complaints about the others skills in that area. We would prefer to meet for dinner, drinks, and/or dancing first, get to know each other and take it from there. We have great kids and careers that we will not risk, so discretion is huge for us.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, Boat, Remote outdoor location

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

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