Hello ladies, thanks for stopping by profile here on AFF, I greatly appreciate it. As you can tell from my username yes, I’m a returning member but don’t feel like changing my username back to where it used to be….lol, I was here as a paid member 13 years ago and I met a couple of nice ladies from AFF that today we are still friends, love connection you ask? Nah, but it’s always good to have good friends in your life, in fact one of the ladies I met we still play online slot games but more about that later. Anyway, I am still 54 years old and I live in the south suburbs here in Chicago, still 5’7”, still weigh about 170 pounds. Still do not have any , didn’t get married since I was last here….lol, yes ladies I’m still single and I still have brown eyes, black hair, 8 fingers, 2 toes, 2 thumbs and still unattached, yea! Haven’t been in a long-term relationship in over 18 years, don’t knock me on that, you get pickier as you get older as you try to find that special person but since you are looking here at my profile here on AFF there are guys and ladies that are looking for friendship and maybe more (ok, yes, I would like someone to be intimate with, why lie, I have needs also at 54 years old just like when I was here in 2008, I had needs also….lol). I’m still keeping my profile title “Seeking Female for Friendship, Fettuccini, Fun & Foreplay :)” because as I said earlier, I’m still seeking a female (race is open) for friendship, we can still go to Olive Garden for some Fettuccini (even though I haven’t been there since 2016), I still like to have fun inside and outside the bedroom and yes foreplay can be more satisfying before the actual act. I think I have a good sense of humor and I would like to meet a female between the ages of 48 and 60 that likes to communicate because as you can tell from this profile I do like to talk a lot for a male (yes ladies I am a male, want me to prove it to you….lol), many years ago I would see movies on the big screen on a regular basis but hopefully once covid subsides I (or should I say we) would want to go back and see movies, and I would like to see more of the USA since my goal is to visit all fifty states before I leave this earth and as of today I’ve been to 20. I did say earlier a lady I met 13 years ago we play slot games together online because I don’t want to lose real money in a casino so what do I do, play them online BUT if you don’t have an interest in playing online games for fun that’s cool! Lastly, I will proudly admit that I’m a BBW admirer (been one since 1990) so if you consider yourself to be plus sized, BBW, SSBBW or thick feel free to contact me if you’re interested in learning about me, it’s just a preference so if you’re not a BBW (Big Beautiful Woman) still reply because you never know what might happen in the future. This profile is kinda of long so I’m going to end it so I hope you learned a little bit more about myself and if you’re interested go ahead and send me a message, meanwhile thanks for checking me out and enjoy the rest of your day!

My Ideal Person Thirteen years ago I came to AdultFriendFinder to find someone by thinking out of the box and as I said earlier even though I didn’t meet that special person, I met some real nice ladies that I met that I can consider to be good friends, so first of all you must be a FEMALE between the ages of 48 and 60. Race is open; Prefer not to visit someone outside of the 50 US States, I don't have a passport and don't want to spend a day on a plane one way to Sydney, Australia or the North Pole...lol! You must be unattached meaning you're not married, have a significant one, going through a divorce (if I'm giving you my all, so should you). You should have a great sense of humor, one that is very outgoing (but if you're shy, that's cool), one that is goal oriented and one that loves a lot of foreplay and massaging. Very important, one that I'm compatible with mentally, physically, emotionally and sexually & speaking of that last part YOU MUST be a woman that is very opal (oops, slip of the keyboard, I must get a new one soon..lol), anyway you must be a woman that is very oral both giving and receiving. Why, because I enjoy my "peanuts" (oops, anybody has a new keyboard they want to donate to a nice, sweet intelligent guy) touched, caressed & kissed and I believe in reciprocity!

As I addressed earlier, I’m looking for a female to start a good friendship and if we connect really well and have great chemistry it can lead to more, not a big fan of just casual dating, if we click in the above areas, I will guarantee that we will get along really good, so if the above paragraph is something that you can provide to a guy that can make you smile, do respond! Have a great day and yes, I do like taking showers with my mate, I think it's so romantic!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Honestly the sexual fantasy that I right now is
being in a threesome (preferably 2 women) but I would
do before I enter into a LTR, I would never want to bring
a third party in a committed relationship in doing a threesome
because if that 3rd party is doing something to me that my
current mate is NOT doing, I know I'm a curious person and
would wonder why my mate is not doing that. If I never fulfill
this fantasy that's good, I can live without it.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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