I am looking to date and friendship, not NSA or dirty messages. I am wondering if he is out there?

Mijn Ideale Persoon: an honest man to develop a relationship with.

I love the cool chill of a fall morning. I think October is the best month of any year. I like the feel of warm sun on my face on a beautiful spring day; the quaint smell of lavender; and the sweet taste of mint on my lips. I enjoy intellectual conversation, goofy times, and I'm up for about anything.

I'm a multi-faceted women who can be goofy, have intellectual or philosophical conversation, play with the kids or do anything. I'm adventurous, spontaneous, caring, romantic, open-minded, and a very family oriented woman. I love my 18 and 19 year-old kids more than life itself. If my new love has children, I have no problem with that. I love kids and have plenty of love to give. My son is a sophomore at WSU and my daughter graduates from high school in June and is college bound. I am a retired Parole Officer/Hearing Officer (Administrative Judge) and a former police officer. I have a BA from the University of Tennessee (GO VOLS!!!). I am currently working on my PhD in Clinical Psychology, with my specialty in forensic psych & behavioral science. Professionally, I'm very goal driven and have new career(s) awaiting me. I have a wide and diverse professional and educatioal background. I love to learn! I am also recovering from a severe MVA with a severely damaged back, though I do not let it interfere with my life. I am a strong, independent, motivated, and driven woman.

I’d love to meet an educated family man who is romanitc, caring, a gentleman, HONEST, spontaneous and always growing as a person. He should be intelligent, cultured, and is searching for the love of his life. A man with integrity who is financially responsible. A man who has sought after his passion as I have in his profession. A man who can communicate well is also a turn on, and did I say HONEST. I want passion and love in our life. I want to feel our chemistry when I look into his eyes. I want to be with a man that’s secure enough to enjoy public affection. I want to feel an intellectual bond. I want to share stories. I want to create stories. I want the soft touch of intertwining fingers and interwoven hearts. The magic of unconditional love with open communication and great sex will help carry our friendship and love for always.

Lastly, I must say that if you are just looking for sex, a one night stand, to play games, or are insecure, superficial, or married, please do not contact me. Also, flakey men need not apply! Lol, seriously. Life is too short!