[SIZE 2][font face=Comic Sans MS][color dark blue] Seeking adult friend(s) with benefits...is there really any other rea to be on this site?! ...I'm kind of a Sybarite at heart with an erotic mind, strong libido, sexually experienced and seeking a exxxperienced, adventurous and sensual woman (or couple) to share erotic adventures, mutual sexual favors and orgasms, and satisfy sex fantasies! From the simple pleasures of just voyeuristic and exhibitionist fun, sharing oral sex play or mutual masturbation, to long and slow sensual foreplay exploration and stimulation or a hard and wild passionate fuck, I get off on giving pleasure as much as I do receiving, and am enthralled by the whole sensual experience of sharing orgasms! I'm not bi, but I'm also interested in playing with a couple in an open relationship who are seeking mfm fantasy fulfillment or "hotwife" sharing. You're still reading?! :) Okay, I know this is kind of a long intro (especially for a man), but it's been pieced together over the time I've been around here (on and off) and I appreciate that you're actually spending some time read it ...you can also find out more about me in my blog ...It's been my experience that there are just so many people sending "junk" mail here that it's almost useless for me to mail you and expect a response, so I'm back to being just a standard member again and can't send an initial email, so [U]if you're interested, it's up to you to let me know by either emailing me or leave me a message in my blog[/U] :) ...Also, the "flirt" thing just seems to be another form of "junk" mail here, so that doesn't really work, and I don't use it either. Otherwise, I'm essentially a down to earth and self-assured guy with a good sense of humor, positive attitude, very active libido, and an erotic and somewhat kinky mind. I'm usually quick to smile or laugh, find the humor and silver lining in life/living, and have also been accused of being a bit mischievious (in a fun way). Am a good-natured gentleman in public, but have an erotic, sexually charged nature in private. I'm relatively well-educated (in college and life) and well-traveled (in a good way), but am always willing to learn and explore new "things". I have no psychological issues that I'm aware of (would I be aware of it if I do?), and am really very normal (hopefully not boring) and generally presentable in public without embarrassing myself or anybody I'm with. Am not accident prone, or prone to drama, crime, drugs or violence. I have not been in pri or committed any crimes (have no desire for either), and I am not a politician or a lawyer (also have no desire for either). I can usually speak competently and carry on a half-way intelligent conversation (maybe even interesting) without mumbling or a rambling diatribe. I have very few vices, but do have a strong lust for sharing sexual pleasure and orgasms with a woman. Have a passion for oral sex (giving as well as receiving), am somewhat sexually adventurous (but not dangerous), and am clean, safe (sexually and mentally) and xxxperienced. I'm in decent physical condition (although slightly "used" from years of playing sports and military life), and have good stamina and "recovery" time ;) Not into drugs (only occasional moderate/social drinking)...prefer the natural highs and thrills from mutual sexual pleasure with a woman. [I][COLOR blue]Still reading?! Well I really do appreciate your interest at this point, and hope you'll continue to pursue your curiosity. :D [/COLOR][/I] I manage my own work schedule and ideally would like to find someone who wants to spice up our daily or weekend routine with sexual rendezvous and adventurous sex play. Often travel throughout WI (usually areas of Madi, E. WI, Fox River Valley/GB, Janesville, Beloit, and Racine/Kenosha) and N/NE IL areas. Occasionally have some weekends available, and sometimes stay in the Chicago area (W. or N. burbs)over the weekend. I will not pursue anything more from you than fun, adventurous, safe and discreet mutual sexual satisfaction and casual friendship. I do not want a serious LTR, but am not really just looking for a one day/night stand either. As exciting as that can be, I'd prefer a casual playmate/sex friend for more in depth exploration of your lust and sexual fantasies (and intense orgasms!) If you are looking for anything more than that, then we are not compatible. [color dark red][b]If you've read this far then I don't know if I should congratulate you or feel sorry for you! :D ...Ok, well if you are really still interested, then you can also find out more about what I'm like (my sexual preferences or "style") by reading my blog posts as well as my comments that I leave on other's blogs. You can also get my attention and get to know me better (or just flirt) by commenting in my blog. Most of the people that I've met here and become friends with are either bloggers, or we've got in touch as a result of interacting through each others blog[/color][/b] If you haven't read my blog/non-blog yet, then I should let you know that I'm more often into long, slow sensual exploration, and savor the pleasure of prolonged sexual stimulation and foreplay (building sexual tension) to increase the intensity and "quality" of orgasms. However, I also enjoy the excitement and adventure of a morning or afternoon rendezvous to make each other cum, or just share erotic oral or mutual "handjob" favors. Of course, I also appreciate the thrill and satisfaction of a wild, passionate and hard fuck; but have found that it is even more intense/satisfying when you've previously done some "in-depth" exploring and learning the intimate details about what each other like to get off on first. Am also into flirting/teasing, erotic/dirty talk, and the adventure of semi-public and/or outdoor sex. Additionally, if you're into it I like to have fun with some light B&D, and if you're naughty enough I will give you the spanking that you crave, or anal play that you desire. I'm not into hard-core B&D, and no S&M or degradation and humiliation. [b]Ok, now here's the bottom line, and potential "deal" breaker here is:[/b][color red][i]*** [U]I am happily MARRIED and in love with a very cool woman, and that will not change[/U]. STOP! *** [/color][/i] Yes, you can blame me for waiting until the end to mention this, but otherwise please reserve your judgements about what you do not know ...life happens, and we now have very different sex drives and desires. However, she is allowing me to discreetly (and safely/cleanly) satisfy my deeper sexual desires as long as it does not negatively interfere with our own relationship. I will respect that, and will not pursue anybody or continue any relationship that would negatively change our lives beyond exploring sexual satisfaction.[/font][/color]:)[/SIZE]

My Ideal Person Someone who is seeking a friend with benefits ...Ideally a woman who is a Sybarite at heart...adventurous, passionate, sensual with a lust to share erotic favors and orgasms, and explore and satisfy her sexual desires and fantasies. Prefer a woman (or the right couple) who is looking for the familiarity and trust of having a playmate/sex friend relationship for safe, D&D free satisfaction of lust fantasies and mutual orgasms! Also, in general I'd prefer someone who is either in an open relationship or just seeking a fun, casual friendship, flirting and teasing, and discreet sexual satisfaction without the expectation of an exclusive long-term relationship.

I enjoy a woman with a positive attitude who wants to have erotic fun and is comfortable with her body, exploring her sensuality, and has a strong desire to satisfy her lustful urges and sexual fantasies. Someone who enjoys escaping her inhibitions, and satisfying her sexual cravings or masturbation fantasies with the touch/feel of a man for her pleasure! An erotic mind and a passion for oral sex (receiving and giving) to share is deeply desired. Also, am comfortable with a woman who has lust to indulge in mutual masturbation, sex toy and/or food play, as well as erotic/dirty talk. If you're into it, I would also love to help you satisfy your craving for spanking and/or light B&D and anal play/pleasures.

As I mentioned above, ideally you are available to satisfy your lust and orgasmic fantasies during the weekdays (occasionally on some weekends), or during my monthly business trip weekends in Chicago area. Should want to maintain a fun, discreet friendship without drama and "strings", and no expectations for serious LTR. Also, prefer someone who enjoys the natural highs and thrills from sex and orgasms, and is not into heavy drinking or hard drugs.

Do you feel the need for a "passion lunch" or a morning/afternoon sexual rendezvous? Want an xxxperienced and skilled "service" or "delivery" man to help make your fantasies cum true? Maybe work 2nd or 3rd shift and have a craving to satisfy your lust before or after work? Or, have a day off and are feeling horny, lusting for a man to play with you? Have some kinks you want to explore or feel out? Want a man to just share your toys or oral and handjob favors with? Or, maybe you just want to watch a man masturbate and cum for you, or enjoy exxxploring mutual masturbation fun and dirty talking to make each other cum? Want a hard cock to suck and play with while you masturbate or get finger fucked? No need to masturbate alone when I'm ready, willing and able to help you satiate your clit!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Too many to list, a lot of band names that start with "The"

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
So many fantasies, so little time! Actually, I really think
that helping to fulfill your fantasy/fantasies and be
intimately involved with the erotic experience of your
orgasms is a fantasy in itself. I get off on the thrill from
the feel, sight, sound and essence of a womans orgasm. Sharing
passionate erotic pleasures, bringing each other to orgasm...how, where and when is
what I want to know from you to fuel the fantasy.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I'm really not into celebrities, and can't say
that there is one I fantasize about. I'd rather fantasize
about "real" people, and my fantasies actually
do always involve real people!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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