[COLOR royalblue]EDIT: I've been here a while. I'm not looking currently, and don't aim to look in the future. I'm social, I'm flirty, I'm very playful, but it's doubtful it'll go farther than that. If it could go farther than that? Trust me, you'd know.[/COLOR] _______________________ Who am I... well, I hate these type of openended questions, but here goes. I'm married, and as such, discreet. I'm a large girl with a good perality, quick to laugh, an hourglassed figure and a relatively open mind. If you like fat girls, we might have something to talk about. Physically, I'm ultra-sensative. If you have the patience of a saint, the pay off can be glorious. The lay of the land might look the same, but it's an illusion. You're going to need explore and draw up a whole new map. I am into girls. I've been with a girl several times, but it's been rare for it to feel right. I don't have a type. I'm very into being touched, being wanted, and flirting--subtle is nice. I like more than just sexual attention, and I'm not getting anything other than that "at home". I'm not into pain. I'm not into ren/animals. I'm not into true submission, or humiliation--though very lesser forms of it can be nice. (To be basic about it, my kinky/BSDM/fetish-oriented friends think I'm timid, and my vanilla friends think I'm a pervert.)

My Ideal Person In women? someone who clicks. It's rare, but when it does, it's lovely. I can't explain it more.

In men? Someone who understands there's a difference in "a guy I like, I sometimes have sex with" and "someone I have sex with, I sort of like".

Overall---
Someone (or someones) very, very discreet, with an intelligent sense of humour.

Someone who doesn't mind a few drinks, but doesn't need them. Someone who can live without doing drugs around me (and never anything hard). Someone who can get through ten sentances in a row without swearing. (Nothing against a well placed word, but a constant litany gets tiresome.)

Someone who can speak intelligently, without talking down to me (my strength lays in empathy, respect for that is a definately plus).

Someone who enjoys touching and teasing and the playfulness of it all, just as much as sex itself. Someone who grasps that sexual encounters are sooooo much more than in-out-repeat for as long as possible.

Someone who doesn't confuse feelings, friendship, love with being "in love"--I need and want to like you, but I'm married and will stay that way.

Someone who either enjoys, or truly oblivious about the fact, that I'm a large girl and doesn't feel as though, nor make me feel as though, they're doing me a kindness by bestowing their attention--mostly because they're not. I'm comfortable with how I look and who I am. If you're not, then we shouldn't bother anyway.

If you're not willing to get to know me over a bit of time, and let me get to know you... keep moving. I've never been in bed with someone I didn't know and like, and I don't aim to begin now.

Ohhhh, and in case it doesn't go without saying... clean--the only thing I've had is chickenpox. You should also be just as clean.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Mutual Masturbation, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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