rm_Calman1950 66 / M
"Are there any real actually sexy women anymore?"
Santa Barbara, California, United States
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Member Since: June 4, 2003

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rm_Calman1950 66/M
Santa Barbara, California
I am a very fit athletic man and love sports, 6' 175lbs, long brn hair mostly pulled back. I try to keep as physically fit as I can. I am very open and honest, sometimes to a fault! I show my feelings on my sleeve, so very sensitive to others, how they feel, what they need, what they want, what there hopes and dreams are, and hopefully make a bond in both our lives. I do Love to laugh, maybe sometimes crying, love cooking,(want someone to cook for),I work hard, play hard, love the beach, BBQ's, love to sing, it's my biggest outlet.

My Ideal Person I can't imagine that there could be so many women out there that say they want a good sexual man. I don't think I should even try anymore. It just seems that any woman that is even interesting to me or even the ones that aren't are just here for games. Maybe the men that are here are doing that to you. And I'm sorry that there are so many men are not honest and open; I am. This is what I am looking for a woman! or couple that is very open and honest!!! Love an average to fit person or persons (NO FATIES) that likes to go out, to the beach, for dinner, dancing, going for a drive or just staying at home and drinking a glass of wine and cuddling to downright nasty playful sex. I would like and need a very sexual woman that can keep up with my sexualness. I have been a dom basically for the last 30 yrs, so love a submissive woman. This doesn't mean that you need to be this way, it's just more what I enjoy. Then, a woman that enjoys her sexuality and sensuousness and not afraid to show it. Or a couple that is also open and honest, bi is also OK. All who write must be very open and honest about anything and everything they would like. That, your likes and dislikes in anything and everything; is something I'm not here to judge. So! Please do not be afraid to tell me your most intimate fantasies and thoughts!! I just
possibly can help you get to have them. In reality, I also am looking for a woman to be my long time partner, soul-mate, best friend; again can't stress I want an open and honest lifestyle through discussion. I want a woman that is good looking, very sexual, to downright nasty, can speak intelligently with others upscale when needed, yet in private can be very open, playful, nasty, kinky, erotic, and sensuous. I love oral, both giving and receiving. I am very physical and not afraid to show it. I love sex anytime, anyplace, anywhere, just as long as there is no problem with the law or hurting anyone physically or mentally. To start being in a friendship is just as big a part of all of this. Please again, just be totally open and honest (a must). Must be completely clean and disease free!!!!! I'm so very tired of the system that people can LIE and you don't even know. If you are a normal, sexual woman, or couple then contact me; otherwise just go elsewhere. For those few that have taken the time to know what I say is true. I thank you so very much, and we will talk.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Hoyt Axton, Eric Clapton, J J Cale, Bonnie Raite

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I would love to have a complete and total sex slave! Call up home and say I want you to get a garter and stockings on, then your long lace gloves on, and your small corset half bra that your nipples stick out. I then would want you to kneel on the rug in the living room legs spread and using your large dildo vib and be playing with yourself when I get home in a half hr. And then when I get there I want !!!!!!!!!!!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Just about anyplace, any time as long as no one gets in any trou

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 66 / male
  • Santa Barbara, California, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Prefer not to say
Looking For:  Men, Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: October 18, 1950
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Single
Height: 6 ft 0 in / 182-185 cm
Body Type: Athletic
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I use some recreational drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Occupation: Design (Architect/Fa
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Prefer not to say
Have Children: Yes. We sometimes live together.
Want Children: Maybe
Male Endowment: Long/Very thick
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Long
Eye Color: Brown
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses
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