This site has changed and now I can't see any profiles or messages or respond to anything. If you want to get me try ALT or send to ptedcu. That would be at the g place. Life's journey takes many turns, mine has taken me someplace I never expected. Am searching to discover a different side of my self after all these years. Hoping to get help for that along the way. Have always been passive / sub / bottom - now wanting to see what else is there with me taking more of a lead in things, have been getting more comfortable with this, but still tend to fall back into my old ways. Hoping someone will have the patience it takes to help this old learn new tricks. Had spent over twenty two years in the swing lifestyle with wife (last 6-7 of which we started getting into some kink) until our was about two yrs old when we stopped to focus on family with the intent to get back to it when was older. In the meantime wife developed early onset Alzheimer's and lost all interest in anything related to sex or sexuality and had gotten to the point of needing constant total care, which I provided to her, until she lost battle, while also trying to raise a aged . Now that I am on my own again am hopeful of exploring new things, learning to serve and what other things I can fell comfortable with. Feel free to contact me, and if you can't at least flirt or hotlist and I'll get back to you. Scored as Submissive Submissive 82% Switch 79% Experimental 79% Bondage 68% Exhibitionist / Voyeur 61% Masochist 54% Degradation 43% Sadist 39% Dominant 25% Vanilla 14% Any questions just let me know, will get back to you ASAP.

My Ideal Person Someone(s) who knows what they want and how to get it and is willing to include me in the "ride."

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Straight No Chaser

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, someone who can take charge, but still is able to includeme.

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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