Say hi...email or chat. Tell me what YOU would like. I have many interests and will gladly travel, within reason, for the right person/situation.
I'm MWM, 61, 6'1", 205 (and going further down), hairy bod, decent endowment that works.
I'd love to find someone(s) for periodic play. And even to do a little travel -- that includes play and is not entirely platonic since I love sex ... but it has to be with people that I like too. Sex is fun ... for me and for anyone that I click with, it's fun for them also, devoid of drama, power trips, quickies and one-sidedness. It should often be gentle, with some kink sometimes that is mutually wanted and liked.
I'm married. My wife does not play, though I have a play pass. She is not able or interested in going to the places and doing the things that I am able to and want to do.
So a fun adventurous woman for play and even some travel to local'ish (or not so local'ish) places to do things that we both want to do, is what I am looking for.
Intuition (mine) about the other person/couple is important....even critical. I've found that if something does not seem kosher, right at the beginning, then something will likely not be right for me with them. I don't have a check list of what those warning signs might be, but I sense them almost from the first thing a person says in chat.
And I have to see and talk to a person face-to-face, over a drink, or coffee, or wine, of even a glass of water. . And I will rarely move to an intimate play setting right then and there. And I don't think that endless emails/chat are worth too much. Only eyeball-to-eyeball and voices work...for me. Would cam2cam with voice work? I don't know. In my limited experience it helps somewhat, but I don't have enough statistics (chuckle) on that to tell definitively!
Want to chat/meet? Let me know.
My Ideal Person == This section is very old. Could/should be updated. Nothing wrong in it, just OLD. ===
I am interested in a mature woman between 45-65 years old who wants strictly fun encounters, in a no strings attached sexual relationship. Or a couple that enjoys MFM play, with all 3 participating most of the time (that means no "just watching"). Someone honest, sane, playful, educated, in average shape, has some free time mornings or afternoons during the week, maybe even ability for some evenings or even nights away and of course is playful and loves sex its many flavors.
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A movie theatre, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room, Swinger Club or similar
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Light Bondage, Threesomes
Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.
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|Looking For: Women or Couples (man/woman)|
|Birthdate:||January 1, 1951|
|Travels to:||lyle, Illinois|
|Height:||6 ft 1 in / 185-187 cm|
|Smoking:||I'm a non-smoker|
|Drinking:||I'm a light/social drinker|
|Drugs:||I don't use drugs|
|Education:||Some grad school|
|Religion:||Prefer not to say|
|Glasses or Contacts:||Contacts|