I've been divorced for two years now, separated for six. I'm not looking for a soulmate or a replacement, just a friend who can give great conversation and/or great head. Our time together should be fun and uncomplicated. I'm a funny and easy-going guy once you get to know me, and although I'm not looking for anything serious, I'm not looking for some anonymous one-off quickie. I'm worth more than that, and I hope you think you are too. I can be discreet if you need me to.

My Ideal Person It's hard for me to describe a "type," because I appreciate different physical types for different reasons. I'm not especially tall, so I prefer women my size or so (although I've been with taller women, so I won't rule them out). Young and enthusiastic is good, slightly older and experienced is better, bitter and cynical is not. "I'm just being honest" does not excuse rudeness. You should have a sense of humor and know how to be discreet. A huge trust fund and a secret love nest are pluses, but not required.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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