I am recently divorced and looking to make friends with benefits. The friends part comes before the benefits. If I don't like you, I can't get excited by you. I am an educated man who likes good conversation. I am not a smoker or drug user, but I am a social drinker. I've got a toned body and at least 8 inches. If I really am attracted to you bigger. I am very articulate and know about a lot of things. I try to be a good listener. I know women and I know most are looking for a LTR. I would also like that depending on the chemistry. .I also know that there is something like 50 men to 1 woman on this site. I'd don't compete and I don't grovel. I have found that often making a first contact is the kiss of death for a woman being interested. Usually, I wait until someone shows and interest in me. It is not pride or arrogance, it just smooths things along.

My Ideal Person I like women who are size and weight proportional. I don't believe in the concept of race so I would be friends with anyone I am compatible with.