mentofuckher 58 / 48 / C
"love meeting attractive, open-minded couples and singles"
東京, Tokyo, Japan
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mentofuckher 58/C
東京, Tokyo , Japan
Looking for quality singles and couples...

We're an international couple who openly enjoy sex with others. We have quite a bit of experience this, and one result of that experience is that we are more than a little careful in our initial approach. We are not looking for a single-shot, ‘wham, bam’ encounter; if such is your goal, please just stop reading and move on to other profiles. Our preference is for a longer-term intimate friendship; we have enjoyed such in the past and look forward to more of the same. Over the years we have enjoyed various patterns: meetings with other couples, threesomes, and individual dating. It has ALL been good! We would love to meet more like-minded couples, but recently we have especially enjoyed having tall, attractive men join us for threesomes. If the first threesome or two go right, she will also date on her own. If our female half finds a gentleman to be especially attractive, she may opt to meet him on her own at times for dates in the city. She has very much enjoyed occasional 'sugar baby' treatment, when she has been a visiting gentleman’s courtesan/consort for a night or a weekend. I find her being 'valued' like this to be amazingly arousing. We would very much like to explore her being such a courtesan a little more, and so are especially open to suggestions in that direction. It is possible that she could be a gentleman's travel companion for trips in Japan and the region. We would assume he is completely comfortable with the idea of his being generous to her as her patron. She will make it worth his while.

There is absolutely no sub/dom element in our preferences. I ( male half is writing this ) am not a passive wallflower or classic cuckold. I actively enjoy my woman being overtly, openly sexual. Her being that way is a turn-on for the both of us. An ideal arrangement would have men becoming friends with us – friendships in which those men and I can share “guy stuff” interests -- and as an aspect of that I extend the courtesy of offering my wife for sex.

The following should explain our manner of approach, so please take a moment to read through it.

Our first ‘concrete’ step in getting acquainted is a little sitdown, face-to-face chat between just the two of us - the potential new partner and myself - over a drink or some coffee. We have found this to be important. It tends to wash out the time-wasters and wannabes; it also puts in place an acquaintanceship that helps the first MFM go very smoothly. This first step is important to us and we do not truncate it. We make no exceptions. If you are in Tokyo for only a single short stay, there will likely be insufficient time to have this little preliminary chat and then meet for MFM. The reason is timing: we live a ways outside the city proper and both of us have very hectic professional schedules. I usually come into the city center 2 or 3 days each week; she however is firmly fastened outside the center of Tokyo on weekdays and so our play time is therefore restricted to weekends and holidays. However, that first chat between you and myself – the one mentioned above -- could best happen on a weekday afternoon or evening when I am in the city. If your stay is long enough we might be able to proceed through the first step into an MFM if our schedules so allow. If you live here, then the timing should be much easier; similar should be the case if you visit regularly. With couples, we ask that the male half have a similar little sitdown with me as a first step.

In regard to timing, we have thoroughly ‘modern’ schedules; they are often fully blocked out some time in advance. Short notice (up to about two weeks prior to a date or even longer in some cases) is usually just flat-out unworkable for us.

We have a number of photos of our female half, some of them of her ‘in action.’ We would ask to see a few clear photos of you (they need not be erotic), to which we will reply in kind with some of her. Any photos you may send will not be forwarded to anyone; we practice discretion - and expect it - as a basic part of this lifestyle.

In terms of “dos and don’ts” the following should provide some guidelines:

We want nothing painful, unsanitary, degrading, or just-plain-weird. To reiterate, we have NO sub/dom interest whatsoever. She prefers men whose height and weight are in good proportion, and she prefers her men on the tall side, ideally 180 cm and up. Large tattoos are a turn-off, as are body piercings.

Safety is a watchword from the outset. We are discreet and value good manners very highly.

We hope the above has been helpful. If you are interested in getting further acquainted, please drop us a note and we can continue the conversation…

And, just to get things straight:
Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects do NOT have OUR permission to use any of our profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, such will be considered a serious violation of our privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.THIS IS A LEGAL NOTICE: The words and images posted by us, remain our sole and exclusive property. Any other use or reproduction of our words or images, in whole or in part, is expressly forbidden. Any unauthorized use shall cause us to suffer irreparable harm, will constitute a severe breach of our privacy and will result in a lawsuit and injunction where we shall demand any and all legal damages and equitable remedies to the fullest extent allowed by law. We hereby assert all of the statutory and common law rights under any and all applicable state, provincial and/or federal laws as though each were fully set forth at length herein.

My Ideal Person This is about a kind of 'taboo' aspect possibly... We just want to see what people think about it, and if it seems too taboo for this site, we will remove it immediately

Over the years we have enjoyed MFM, couple + couple, dating, etc., and it has ALL been good. Sometimes it was really intense; at other times work and other issues kept us too busy to play much. We are now in a 'pretty busy' pattern so she isn't fucking a lot, sad to say. I have always gotten off on seeing her fuck, or hearing about her doing it on her own. It just turns me ON...

Sometimes when just the two of us were fucking, we would fantasize out loud a bit...and one scenario came to have a real energy of its own: in it, she would have one or more wealthy, classy 'patrons' who would enjoy having her as a courtesan whenever in Tokyo. When we talked about this scenario, her pussy would be instantly slick and sopping wet, and she would cum within 30 seconds or so.

A couple of years ago, we had an MFM with a gentleman who visits on business from London and it was fantastic! I could see she really liked him ( and his cock..and the way he fucked her...) and it was obvious that he liked her as well. As we discussed his next trip out our way and were mentioning our time constraints ( we both have pretty time-consuming careers...), he ventured the thought that he'd love to have her on his own if I didn't mind, and he said he would really treat her well. We discussed it and he was game to have my wife as his 'courtesan' on his next visit...

About 6 weeks later, he was here again, and we arranged for her to meet him at his hotel ( 5-star..which was of course nice!). She met him in the lobby and then he took her out for a little fashion shopping ...he let her pick out a nice dress and a nice pair of heels. Then they were off to dinner...then to a club for some drinks ( as he was showing her off, of course...)...and then back to his hotel where they had an intense sexual session for most of the night. He came in her 4 times, I think; she told me he was so turned on at this and was as hard as granite, shooting HUGE loads.

The next morning they had a leisurely brunch followed by a relaxed fuck. When she kissed him goodbye, he slipped an envelope into her braless blouse, inside it were three large bills. She had never mentioned money or shopping; both of those just unfolded 'naturally' as things progressed. She phoned and told me about her time with him..and damn that made my hard-on even more rigid. When she came home she was dressed in the things he had bought her and her pussy was still slick with his sperm. I could not believe how much this turned ME on. We fucked and I had what may have been the most incredible orgasm (!!!) I have ever felt.

I have to admit that her doing this has turned out to be just about the most arousing thing I have ever encountered. I am bowled over by the erotic charge of seeing her become an elegant courtesan like this. The idea of her being valued - that attractive “quality” gentlemen will of their own volition treat her generously for being their social and sexual partner – is exciting beyond words. I still love MFM with her fucking a hot young guy in front of me, I am turned on at the thought of her dating and fucking 'as usual', and I still enjoy being with other women ( ohh yesss)...but this is just SOOOO intense for both of us.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each, healthy, sane, stable

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  • 58/48 / Couple (man/woman)
  • 東京, Tokyo, Japan
Sexual Orientation:
Bi-curious / Bi-curious
Looking For:  Men, Women or Couples (man/woman)
Marital Status: Married
Swinger Type: Sex with others
Speaks: English, Japanese
Have Children: Yes. We live together.
Want Children: Happy with what we have
Our Trophy Case:
Birthdate: August 1, 1958 October 1, 1968
Relocate?: No No
Height: Prefer not to say Prefer not to say
Body Type: Prefer not to say Prefer not to say
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker Prefer not to say
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs I don't use drugs
Education: Master's degree BA/BS (4 years college)
Occupation: education and media professionally creative field
Race: Prefer not to say Prefer not to say
Religion: Agnostic Agnostic
Male Endowment: Prefer not to say/Prefer not to say N/A
Circumcised: Prefer not to say N/A
Bra Size: N/A