I am looking to find someone for a LTR a single man to share a vanilla life on the outside and very near nonvanilla sex life with me Why look here instead of elsewhere because I dont know if I would even be allowed to post what it is I would like sexually on those sites By this age and based on my life experiences I have figured out that sex in a relationship should be important to me I also accept that I crave having a Dom to submit to sexually It gives me a release and allows me to climax like no other It is important to me that my Dom understands that my submission is a very big gift that is earned with trust and respect A man who understands that a Dom is not abusive he uses his subs body however he chooses and pleases for both of our pleasure I am of course equally a pleaser who knows giving up that control to the right man is what I need I have a deep appreciation for a man who has a wonderful kinky imagination and wants to act those things out with me Someone who has a healthy sex drive and loves a good long sessionplay day I am submissive in the bedroom but no where else If you met me in my real life you would not know In my vanilla life I am a well educated working professional I do coparent my two with their father drama free I have time for the right man just not for games please I am also a woman with feelings I love to have fun joke around and am extremely lighthearted I can be serious when needed and am really good at reading the room to know when it is time to be seriousthen I am usually the one to break the tension with my humor My personality allows me to get away with this in ways others may not be so successfullolI39m always willing to share more in conversationfeel free to message me I don39t usually use the IM on hereit39s just terribleI am a fan of a man who can write a bunch of sentences together Short phrases will not attract me to you Please know I am real I will eventually want to meet but I39m not in a rush either though I can not see your profile right now sharing it with me in a message would be absolutely appreciated I will eventually send pics upon requestI need to know if I can talk to you first I am 5398quot blond hair blue eyes and would describe myself as thick I attract ass men I just do Send me a message if you are interested I will do my best to get back to youand if not good luck in your search

Mi persona ideal: A man who can hold a conversation and is kind funny intelligent understanding and sweet in public and a strict Dom behind closed doors Stamina is a mustI like to climax a lotwhen I am allowed to of course Making me cum is not the challenge with me that is easy Satisfying me with enough orgasms the really strong ones I get when I39m in that sub space those are the ones that satisfy me and the orgasms I cravePlease be honest if you are not looking for a relationship or if you are already in one don39t reach out to me That is not fair to me her or you and I don39t want to be the side chickMy age is accurate I do have a quotyou shouldn39t be closer to my dad39s age than mine thingquothe had me at 28Preferably someone who lives within an 15 hrs of central CT420 friendly please