_________________________________________________[/B] We're a secure and happily in love couple who have been energized by all the wonderful experiences we've had and people we've met in the lifestyle over the years. [I]IS[/I] this a 'lifestyle'? ...more of a hobby... a pastime..an occasional urge? just something your mother told you not to do? We think it's really a state of mind - and when you're in it you seem to connect with all the other sexually unconventional,open-minded, happy couples who have tuned in to that same station. But whatever it is it should be bottled because it has kept us feeling, acting and looking much younger than we probably deserve. She is considered vivacious, outgoing, and she puts people at ease. He's pretty damn cute and has an inquiring mind. She's a sucker for men and women who love to kiss and do it well. He likes to find out where all the buttons are... and push them repeatedly. Same room, same bed fun is best - although the bed is optional. Sweat and body heat are mandatory. We enjoy the local lifestyle clubs on occasion and have been to quite a few international ones as well now. We enjoy our travel and will often meet couples in other cities through their AFF profiles. Sometimes though we just get picked out of a crowd as one of "those" couples...fortunately it seems you have to [I]be [/I]one of those couples to recognize us.

My Ideal Person We like spending time with couples who will socialize, laugh, drink wine (beer too), eat well, tease...and play. We tend to click with couples who will unabashedly taste everything on the buffet table - and go back for more of what they like most. They have guidelines, not rules. Their friends wonder where their smiles come from (and why are they so damned happy anyway?) They view the people they meet in this milieu as kindred souls and fellow explorers - not as disposable sexual objects for the furtive fulfillment of sophomoric fantasies. They know where their largest erotic organs are. They are honest with each other - they are not threatened or frightened by any aspect of their partner's desires - they embrace, encourage and revel in them. They value and require discretion but they feel no shame.
While she is very bi-playful if your comfort level is limited to 'girl-girl play while the boys watch' we're not the couple for you. Our tastes have been shaped by real life and real people - not Hugh Hefner or Bob Guccione.

You need not be experienced - just hungry for new and wonderful sexual adventures. You have to want to bite the apple though...not just nibble it or watch while others eat their fill.

We always meet for drinks, fun and stimulating conversation first. We will ask to see a few pics prior to meeting. Ours are in our profile. If we like what we hear and see we will look forward to meeting in short order.

Single males: You will have to be nothing short of extraordinary as there are a lot of you out there. We don't respond to one sentence emails, married men cheating, or "guys willing to learn".

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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