love_it_rough 39 / M
"Looking for submissive women for short and long-term D/s relationships"
Calgary, Alberta, Canada
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love_it_rough 39/M
Calgary, Alberta , Canada
[ This was a copy and paste from a rather more kinky website, take it all with a grain of salt. While I am, certainly, about as kinky and creepy as this profile lets on, I'm also a boring, decent, caring sort of guy who's just looking for a girl I can get along with. There's enough room in the world for kink, love, fun, commitment, and everything in between the whole lot, right? ]

I'm an independent professional who knows what he wants, and doesn't often take "no" for an answer. I'm not a "typical" dom, in that I don't differentiate between "real life" and "scenes"; I don't separate the reality from the play; I don't believe I need to dress the part to enjoy the act. This is part of who I am, and I feel no need to section my relationships off to pretend this part only matters "sometimes" or "in the bedroom".

We all have our urges and needs, and there's no point denying them, but I firmly believe we need both sides of the coin, the tender and the violent, the controlling and the supportive. I'm looking for a partner, not a slave. Just a partner who happens to enjoy sexual slavery, violence, and pain.

People often write "no mind games" in their profiles, or something similar. This makes no sense to me, as the ultimate dominance and submission isn't about physical power (though it may manifest as such), it's about emotional power. The entire premise is one giant mind game; a subtle dance of manipulation of wants and needs. If you don't yet grasp that, you're not for me.

My Ideal Person Long term, I'm looking for a woman who understands that "24/7" doesn't mean "loveless slavery", who understands that a warm cuddle or a lazy evening in front of the TV is as important as being tied up, used, and abused (and who is perfectly fine with the former turning into the latter without warning).

In the short term, I'm perfectly happy with leaving the romance out of it, and meeting people for rough encounters, the rougher the better. I'm very much into play, with a level of realism and brutality that will leave you broken and in tears. Obviously, I will respect any limits laid out before hand, but from there, anything goes. And I mean anything.

  • 39 / male
  • Calgary, Alberta, Canada
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women
Birthdate: September 16, 1977
Relocate?: Prefer not to say
Marital Status: Single
Height: 172-175 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Some college
Occupation: Systems Analyst
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Atheist
Have Children: No
Want Children: No
Male Endowment: Average/Average
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Long
Eye Color: Hazel
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses
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