I have came to the conclusion to change the way I have always gone in to relationships and that is what brought me into this type of life style. You see I always did the normal bf/gf relationship. However, I have never been able to ignore a crazy decision from the woman I was with or the fact that they wouldn't do something because their friends wouldn't approve. Plus I am a man that always felt I should be in charge, and btw relationships lasted longer back in the days when women were submissive to men. I want a woman that does what I say. now with that said I am a man that is not on a ego trip, and going to have her do stupid stuff just to impress others. or have her do things that will get her arrested. that's not to say we would not do risqué stuff because that is where the fun lies. A example of something I would like to do with a woman is tie her up blind fold her, gag her, tie each tit and each leg together. than suck on each nipple get it hard and use a glass tube attached to a pump and really get them to stick out then tie twine around each nipple by running the twine around the neck to the other nipple. Thin I would do the same to her clit and run that string up to the other around her neck. then I would put a vibrating dildo in her pussy, and then flogger or spank her and then I may anally fuck her. Now that is one thing I would like to do to a sub. I have many other things in mind. I want to be able to tell her how to dress and all this she should want to do willingly even she should except the fact that I am going to punish her in said way if she argues to much before she does what I say. If you feel this is you contact me and we will talk. She needs to know I am only going to have her do things designed for us each to have fun. I want her to have as much fun as me, so I really do not want a woman that will just go along with me I want a woman that truly wants this type of relationship. one of the reas I feel now that I need to be the dominate one in charge is most women hold back what they really want to do because they always say what will my friends think. My feeling about that well are this there should always be some discretion used....but never should one not do something they want to do because of what another thinks. Also, through out time and even a lot of women will tell you they let their emotions get carried away with them they will even make all their decisions by emotions and that is why they make a lot of decisions that they make. I think most women need a man to guide them weather they think they do or not.

My Ideal Person My I deal woman would be one that understands that the being dominated part is more to enhance and keep interesting the dynamic of a relationship, not just to treat her as a doormat. Infact the domination should be only done mostly at intimacy times and then just enough to keep the thought of it. I would hope any woman I choose to spend my time with would know I respect her or I would not be with her. Other than that this is a list of things I like and she should to.

anal sex (giving), ass play (giving), blindfolds (giving), bondage (giving), breast/nipple torture (giving), caging/confinement (giving), candle wax (giving), chains (giving), collar and lead/leash (giving), cunnilingus (giving), dildos (giving), discipline (giving), doctor/nurse play (everything to do with it), enemas (everything to do with it), erotic photography (everything to do with it), exhibitionism (watching), fisting (giving), hair pulling (giving), handcuffs (giving), humiliation (giving), latex (giving), leather (giving), making home movies (everything to do with it), masks (giving), masochism (giving), master/slave (giving), masturbation (everything to do with it), mutual masturbation (everything to do with it), nipples, nun/priest play, oral sex (everything to do with it), pain (giving), piercings (giving), pinching (giving), rimming (everything to do with it), role play, rubber (giving), scent, sensory deprivation (giving), sex in public (everything to do with it), spanking (giving), talking dirty (everything to do with it), toys (giving), vibrators (giving), whips (giving).