Let me be straight forward. I get turned on by cheating. Period. But I don't want the drama of your wife finding out, I just want the fantasy of an affair with a married man. What I am looking for is secret, hard and deep sex. You should be attracted to bbw and open minded. This should be your first or 2nd time cheating, I don't want to be 1 of a hundred girls - I want it to be a "special" experience. I want you to live within 30 minutes of my town but not in my town because I don't want to run into your wife while grocery shopping. We will use condoms. We will not kiss due to allergies, we will skip oral on me for the same rea and if I suck you too make you hard, it will be with a condom. You cannot come to my house do we will need to do it at yours, in the car or get a hotel. I work a lot but so does my husband do we will have ample opportunity. I like to be fucked deep and hard, and i adore quickies. Doggy and missionary are my favorites. What do you think? TO BE CLEAR: I love my husband and will not leave him. But I am looking for an AFFAIR, not just casual sex.

Min Idealperson I just thought it'd be a good idea to expand this, and clarify.

The #1 thing I am looking for right now is a MARRIED or TAKEN man. I have an infidelity fetish and I've always been super concerned with right and wrong -- well, now, I want to put that aside and get my fantasy fulfilled. I am looking for a moderately attractive man who is 25-55 years old. I want a FACE picture. And please, please do not send me an email asking for "NSA." There are always strings and saying you don't want strings in your first email, and with that phrasing, tells me more about you than you realize. I want an affair -- I want an emotional connection, romantic or not, with a friendship that leads to the sexually charged passion + knowing it is a forbidden, secretive act.

Now, aside from that... there are other things I am potentially looking for -- 1-2 in-town (or able to get here on short notice) fuckbuddies/fwb that can be fun, open-minded, friendly and patient with all of my neurosis. I like it hard and I like it fast. I like it in a bed, on a couch or in a car. I love cuddling but that will depend on the feel of the relationship.

I have neat fetishes. I'm interested in fulfilling fantasies. Do you have an interesting one? Tell me it!