james247343 61 / 32 / C
"Female Is Looking For Bi Females, Couples Or The Right Guy"
NOVA, Virginia, United States
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james247343 61/C
NOVA, Virginia
Thank you for taking the time to visit our profile. We do appreciate it. And if in fact nothing comes of this, we apologize for wasting your time and hope you do find what you're looking for. It is just so terribly difficult finding just the "right" person to play with so we wish you the best in your search.

Female has never had a bi experience but would like to try. A long term relationship is possible with the right girl. (Husband does not have to be present when girl is with the female she is playing with.) Female is also interested in meeting the right guy (straight only) for great sex with or without the husband being present although I the husband will always be present initially. Safety comes first and so I like to meet anyone she will be with.

Female is submissive and likes "gentle" roughness, biting that leaves marks but no blood, a belt on her ass that makes her cry out but no lasting marks, nipple clamps things like that. Would also like to meet couples where the guy is straight. As of this writing girl is an anal virgin and we are looking for someone who can do this with a minimum of pain and no blood or long term damage.

Both of us have a wild sense of humor and we can discuss (we think) intelligently economics, history, politics, sports, you name it and we enjoy spirited conversation. While we realize this site is all about sex, we enjoy meeting people we can enjoy beyond that too.

She is very responsive and very multi-orgasmic. She loves to deep throat to completion. She also loves exploring a man's body with her hands and mouth and tongue and pleasing him and being pleased in return. If in fact you really know how to give a good massage then you definitely have her attention immediately!

If you are a guy we will want to see a recent HIV test with the emphasis on "recent" if you want to have intercourse with her. If that is a problem, then we prefer that you not contact us. Female recently tested HIV negative and wants the next one and the next one to be the same. We ask this because everyone talks safe sex, no one really does it, or at least not reliably.

That said, we are more than happy to engage in activities short of intercourse. If you are willing to watch the two of us and caress her and do everything short of final penetration, we are more than willing to consider that. If you have an idea that you think we might be interested in, please try it out on us.

If you smoke please don't do so around us since it is a migraine trigger for both of us.

I the husband with the consent of the man we play with does like to photo/video any encounter she has with another guy. I do have a dedicated camera for this and segregate all photos on separate USB drives. But while this is desired, it is not a requirement.

Please when contacting us give us a few sentences about why you are interested in contacting us and what kind of activities you have in mind. One or two sentence profiles really don't give us enough to decide if we want to proceed or not. We will probably want to exchange a few emails to get a sense of who we are going to meet before that first meeting. Let's be honest, that first meeting is so horribly awkward isn't? You're total strangers and you're meeting at a hotel or a bar or where ever to decide if you're going to go to a hotel room to . . . You get the picture. We like to get to know people enough in advance to make that meeting as comfortable as possible with as little pressure as possible. Thank you in advance for your patience.

Finally we never give out pictures that can identify either of us in connection with this. We apologize but we won't. We value our privacy above all. This is fun but safety and privacy is come first.

Please when you write us do address our concerns. We genuinely enjoy this part of our lives, it's tremendously exciting, but we're not fanatics. If we can't meet the right person(s) we'll accept that.

Again, thanks so much for taking the time to visit with us. We know how hard it is to find people here and if we aren't what you had in mind then again, our apologies for having wasted your time and we do wish you success in your search.

Let me say this again, if you contact us one or two sentences, a simple "hi, what's new?" or "want to get together tonight?" messages like that we will not respond to, sorry but we won't. We want some sense of what happens if we decide to meet or she meets at a bar, restaurant with you alone, decides to go with you, well now she's in the room with you, NOW WHAT? Give us 2/3 sentences on the NOW WHAT. Basically we do 2/3 email exchanges so that when we or she alone meet with you, we/she already more or less knows that she barring something really weird is probably going to go to that room. We prefer to have that decision largely made before we meet but that can't happen based on 1/2 sentences, sorry. And if we write you and you respond, address at least one or more of things we mention in the email. We write at length about what we're interested in for a reason. In your response are you equally interested in those things? If so tell us.

And again, we don't promise meetings, sorry. Chemistry is weird.

My Ideal Person People who are reasonably intelligent, well spoken, fun in and out of bed. Girl is somewhat submissive and enjoys some moderate pain without drawing blood so guys should keep that in mind when replying. She likes gentle too but spanking, biting, things along those lines appeal to her so males who have some experience as doms certainly appeal to us. Being tied up, blindfolded, nipple clamps are things she has yet to experience so again if you have some experience in this contact us.

We prefer females to be on the slender side. Curves are fine but unduly "horizontally challenged" won't work for us. Sorry. No one much over 40. We don't really have an age limit for guys. It's more who you are and what you can do than what your age is. We like guys 5'8" or so and above and not unduly obese. But again, try us. It's what you bring to us that matters. Try us.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Vince Gill, Keith Urban, the Eagles, so many others.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 61/32 / Couple (man/woman)
  • NOVA, Virginia, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight / Bi-curious
Looking For:  Men, Women or Couples (man and woman)
Marital Status: Married
Swinger Type: Sex with others
Speaks: English
Have Children: No
Want Children: No
Birthdate: March 10, 1953 February 12, 1982
Relocate?: Maybe/Yes Maybe/Yes
Height: 6 ft 2 in / 187-190 cm 5 ft 3 in
Body Type: Average Slim/Petite
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I don't drink at all I don't drink at all
Drugs: I don't use drugs I don't use drugs
Education: Some grad school BA/BS (4 years college)
Occupation: white collar profess professional
Race: Caucasian Asian
Religion: Protestant Catholic
Male Endowment: Average/Average N/A
Circumcised: Yes N/A
Bra Size: N/A 32 / 70 A