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If you are free on one of those dates that I am in your city, perhaps I can have the pleasure of your company over dinner/drinks.If you are visiting Toronto I would love to entertain you.
My Ideal Person ETIQUETTE FOR THE SINGLE MAN:
From my experience and listening to the horror stories from couples about single men,I would like to offer my advice to single men who want to be with couples:
First and foremost remember we are a dime a dozen on AdultFriendFinder.
If you are homo-phobic do not contact a couple.
If you cannot preform with another man being present do not contact a couple.
If your initial contact is 5 lines or less,chances are you will not get a response.
In your initial contact,do not tell a couple what you want to do to the lady.
Tell them a little about yourself.Be respectful,humorous and compliment them on the things on their profile that interests you.
Be honest,remember you are hoping to meet them.
Remember you only have one person's schedule to plan around.A couple has themselves plus their children's schedule to think about so be patient.
Be discreet about meeting but do not ask to meet in your car or a parking lot or on a street.Instead try a bar,restaurant or coffee shop.
Let them know that the only expectation you will have of them is meeting.
Show up,show up,show up.If you are delayed or an emergency happens,notify them immediately.If you do not notify them,the only way you will get a second chance is if you have a death certificate.
Upon meeting chances are you will be nervous,so will they.This is normal.To overcome this have a drink,be humorous talk about things other than the lifestyle.Once everyone is relaxed and comfortable try flirting.
Do not ask for their address or where they work.They will tell you only if they want to
Engage hubby in your conversation.After all he is part of the experience and represents 50% of the decision.
If you are interested let them know and suggest a possible location.
Ask them if they are interested then leave and go to the washroom or somewhere.This gives them time to discuss it privately as opposed to putting them on the spot.Always respect their decision and do not attempt to change their minds.
Ask them for their do's,dont's and maybees.Inquire about their fantasies with a single man.
Most times you will be required to make the first move to get the action started.I find standing behind the lady rubbing her arms and caressing her neck to be effective.
Remember you are there to compliment hubby in pleasuring the lady--not to compete with him.For hubby it is a celebration of his security with his lady.You are not there because he needs help.
Never assume that you can do everything to the lady that the husband does to her.
Do not try and convince them that they should try something if they already told you no.Eg anal.
Bring your own condoms.Chances are they do not use it between themselves so why should they have any.
Try your best to not climax before the lady.
If you are enjoying it let hubby know how lucky he is to have such a lady.
If hubby wants to watch or participate respect his decision.
Sense what really turns them on and focus on that.
AFTER THE PLAYING:
Let them know if they would like to get together again for them to contact you,not you contacting them.This prevents clinginess and that you do not become a part of their lives.
Never ever ask the lady to meet you alone,behind hubby's back.
Remember the lady may have gone to bed with you but it is hubby she wants to wake up to.
Let them know that if you saw them in public with their friends that you will make eye contact but never approach them.This will prevent placing them in an akward situation with their friends.They can approach you.
Ask them if you could write a testimonial to vouch for their character so that others will know that they are real and not game players.Do not be offended if they say no.Some people like to keep it private.
Finally remember the first advice--We are a dime a dozen.
ETIQUETTE FOR COUPLES:
Couples: We know we are a dime a dozen,but that does not mean that we will sit around waiting and planning our evening for you to respond.We have to pursue other options until someone is committed to meeting us.
If we contact you on Monday for a Sat meeting and we have received no response by Wed,even though you have been online, then we will contact others.If we contact someone and they have committed to meeting us and then you contact us on Friday saying that you want to meet on Sat,do not be offended if we tell you that we have committments that we have to honour.
If we contact you very respectfully and politely(if your profile says that you are looking for men) and you do not respond at all (even if it is a polite "no thank you,I am not interested"}then we are left to believe thatA)You were raised by wolves and have no manners(You are a lazy person--too lazy to respond,or(C)You are game players.If you possess any of those qualities then we do not want to waste our time pursueing you.
If you are not interested a polite quick reply would suffice.We then add your handle to the Block list so that we will not bother you again.Believe me we will respect you more for that.
If you are interested but cannot committ to meeting on a certain day,then please say so and we will understand and perhaps try and work around your schedule.Think of it like being at a dance and you ask someone to dance.How would you feel if they just ignored you and not responded.It is simple courtesy folks.You advertised yourselves and someone responded respectfully to your
ad.If you were a business and you did not respond to a customer then you cannot blame that person for going elsewhere.
Contact us the way you would like to be contacted.
Do not contact us if it is just hubby wants to see his wife with another man.It has to be 100% from both.
Let us know your schedule so that we can work around it.
Let us know beforehand if you want to take pictures.Do not bring out a camera in the middle of playing and start taking pics.
If we meet at a bar/restaurant and you know that there is absolutely no chemistry tell us immediately.Believe me we will appreciate it and respect you even more.
I am writing this because I think it is important that we all look at it from everyone's perspective,that way meeting can be more rewarding.
Couples,once again we know we are a dime a dozen,but then again so are you when you try and pursue that elusive single woman.Treat us the way you would like that single woman to treat you.Think about it
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Threesomes, Slave/Master
What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each
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