People would tell you that I am friendly, inquisitive, driven, focused, independent, adventurous, a bit cocky, kinky, playful and uninhibited. I have also been told I am a great lover. I am very direct and to the point and I don't like to play games. I do have a very high sex drive and have a healthy appetite for sexual curiosity.Dislike conflicts and arguments. I own multiple businesses and because of this, I need to be discreet with my encounters. I am looking for a female to kick back and relax with and have a good time. Possibly have dinner, drinks, perhaps some dancing or maybe just go and relax in the hot tub. If something more erotic were to come from it.. GREAT!, but if not... hey.. we would have had a good time anyway. I am a totally straight male so I am in this to totally please the female if the right one were to come along. I would like to get to know someone first online through chatting and pics and even through phone conversations to see if there is some hot chemistry. I like people who are uninhibited, playful, kinky, erotic and passionate. I also like people who are verbally expressive in their needs and wants, and just an overall blast to be with. Someone who is classy in public and a sex crazed nymph behind bedroom doors. I love sex... lots of Foreplay, oral, mutual masturbation, light playful bondage, toys, 3 sums, loves to experiment with different positions (can you guess my favorite?), and a whole lot more. I believe in totally pleasing my lover in every way until she is exhausted. This includes going down orally on her for long periods of time. I know if I please my lover, I will most certainly be rewarded. I am considerate to her wants and needs and I derive great pleasure from seeing her orgasm over and over again from our combined efforts. I am not looking for any long term commitment, just good old fashioned NSA fun. I am no Mel Gibson, but I am told I am handsome and "cute". You be the judge. I am physically fit and want someone who is as well. I believe that fitness translates into stamina in the bedroom, so I hope you like long sex sessions. I like my partner to be a bit younger and more to the petite, slim, athletic side. I would also like someone bi-curious or bisexual who would feel comfortable enough after getting to know each other to want to go to a swingers club and find a hot female to bring home for both of us to devour. I would like someone who for the most part is submissive, but not so much so that once in a while wouldn't mind reversing roles and being a bit on the assertive side. Of course talking dirty at times is essential! Some of my hobbies are, Racing, Skiing, Hot Tubbing, Backpacking the Rockies, Running, Laying out on an exotic beach with my lover, Giving great massagesand Singing. I like to go out and have a good time, or can be just as comfortable spending a quiet evening at home with my lover and a bottle of wine. (Well maybe not so quiet). I am D/D free, Discreet, and I expect you to be too. If you think you might like to learn more about me and are looking for NSA fun with no commitments, then please drop me a line and say hello!

My Ideal Person Someone who can be by my side when needed.Someone that I can hug an embrace tightly in my arms. Lonely time very diffcult to pass.Sensuality - like touching and candles and massage is as important as sex. Extramarital affairs add excitement to a relationship.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Rimming, Light Bondage, Threesomes, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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