guestoflife 35 / F
"NO MEN!! Let's try this! (Seriously, no men)"
New York, New York, United States
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guestoflife 35/F
New York, New York
I've been sure I was bi since I was a little girl, but never really had the opportunity to explore beyond a few situations..... Now it's all I can think about.

I travel a lot so if I've flirted with you I'm in your area. (And have a hotel room!!!)

I'm attached to a wonderful man who is understanding and won't be involved. I get annoyed at the "I want to experiment so he can watch" thing. Not looking for a unicorn... just a friend.... who I have delicious lesbian sex with.
We've tried the swinger thing and that didn't work. I need more emotional connection than a drunken dancefloor grope. LOL!

I'm an introvert who is also goofy, caring, sarcastic (hey, I live in NYC, you think I won't be snarky?) ridiculously hard working, music, dance, animal and arts loving person. I'm quiet in the beginning, but once I know you, I'm a spazz.

If I've got a day off, I'm probably at the met getting inspired or trying to snag those badass lottery tickets to the opera... Or maybe getting out of the city and going horseback riding. Or sitting on my ass reading a book.. you get the idea. Mental stimulation is just as important as physical. Speaking of physical, I've gained a bit of weight (15 lbs) lately and have been hitting the gym to get rid of that.


My Ideal Person Well, you're a woman. I've got enough boy parts at home (and he is lovely but not a woman) Please be D/D free, I am. I literally have never had anything and would like to keep it that way.

A BFFFWB would be awesome. I had a close friend that we had an amazing sexual relationship with but stopped since her husband wanted in too. Right now though, I'd LOVE to have a sexual relationship or just a hookup. I'm looking for a level of discretion since my job is strange and privacy is important with it.

I'm pretty low maintenance most of the time, but think very femme women are gorgeous.. ( but If you're a bit androgynous I will probably fall off my chair. If you look like Tilda Swinton, I might die) That said, I can go full glam with my makeup if I'm in the mood.

I would love to meet and see if we connect, then get a hotel room and do dirty, unspeakable, delicious things to each other.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 35 / female
  • New York, New York, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: January 6, 1982
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Attached
Height: 5 ft 4 in / 162-165 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Prefer not to say
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Prefer not to say
Have Children: No
Want Children: No
Bra Size: 36 / 80 C
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Red/Auburn
Hair Length: Long