이상형: My ideal is someone who knows what to battle for and knows just as well when a battle is a fruitless endeavor . This person should also know what it is to be real human being to treat others as human beings . Treat others as you would like to be treated even if others aren't acting in kind .,Be the bigger human as it were. This is a harder row to hoe but I find it much more self rewarding . After all haven't you ever noticed how unhappy all those embrace their inner bitchiness and total assholeness really seem to be. What they tend to forget is that karma is the biggest bitch or asshole there is. You really do reap what you sow.