What happened to good ole fashion friends, that like to share common hobbies and movies, and then a little more - but with just you two - forever? Gone? Married but getting divorced, gone are the days of fun, movies, and fooling around. I am not looking for anything serious for now, but am looking for a good friend, that is not afraid of a little more, without falling in love. I'm 6'1, been told I am a good catch. Love debates, intelligent, have 2 jobs, and manage my life pretty well. Don't do drugs or drink, but know how to have fun. Due to my gaming hobbies as well as internet and programming, I tend to be a homebody. I am well known in the community, so discretion is a must (for now). But above all, I can be a loyal friend, and a good shoulder. If your married life stinks - lets talk about it.

My Ideal Person I am looking for someone that enjoys the gaming world. While everyone here seems to focus on sex (not that I am not into it), what about pillow talk? Not into the "finale" then dead silence.
Politically, I am a conservative(right), anyone else, I would just annoy, and would not work well. I also have studied religion for over 20yrs... so am versed with that, however, If you are heavy into religion, again, probably not much of a match.
But my real passion is gaming. I have found over the years that gamers are much more down to earth and more open minded. Gaming makes for great conversations, and are not as destructive as say religion or politics.

Age is not an issue (within reason), maturity is a must, no drinking and prefer a non-smoker for the long term, unless we are just friends with a few benefits as short term.

Open on race, again see above and below descriptions.

On the intimate side, I've done just about everything there is and some I would love to try, or be a part of (WS?). Prefer someone that is a little more aggressive in this area, i.e. if your want it ".. make a pass" or just "start!'. Sometimes guys like it when a girl wants it, she goes after it - without asking. kinda sexy- If we're chatting and the chemistry is movin' Kiss me!

I am sooo, not into head games. I've been through tons of those, and if you don't know what you want, and see what i have to offer, and what I am involved with and it is not for your, move on. If you proceed, follow through.

So in short: Gamer, Intelligent conversationalist, sex is more of a trust and confidence between to close friends vs taboo, Preferred involved as well(married and looking type). Close by is a must SLP, Edina only. Will consider farther out.