I'm otherwise known on here as BiSalemOR. Many men and women have said that my name does match my lusty wants. It hinted that I'm bi when I'm only bi curious since I've never been with a guy. They tell me my name indicated that I wanted to be top when its bottom only for me with men. I am straight but have found myself desiring to experience the other side of the fence. While I don't wish to be controlled or ordered etc I find myself wanting to learn to submit to men and women. I want them to take the lead role but not try to control me, I want my own sexual fantasies and lust to control me. I mostly want women that wants to swap roles occasionally. I ideally want a woman that I can have LTR that will allow me to be the top straight male but then have a sub bottom male time as well. I would like her to be mildly aggressive in her own sexual desires as a sub or domme. I am open to NSA or FWB as well. Ideally though any that is with me would have an interest in allowing me to explore some fantasies and helping me to make them a reality.

My Ideal Person Looking for stereotypical straight relationship with a woman.

Looking for switch relationship with a woman.

Looking for woman to be friends with (online or in person) to mentor me and maybe be a gentle, encouraging, sensual domme that wants to ensure I achieve progress in my curiosities.

For everything else that does not match above then I want to learn to find a submissive bottom side only. As such I do not want to have orgasms of my own although it is very much desired through anal stimulation only except for the normal straight sex. I want to be there to pleasure other but do want to have physical and mental pleasures as a bottom.

Young but legal guys interests me a lot if they are a top, have a desire to orgasm from using, can treat me with respect and understanding, knows how to seduce me to pleasure them instead of being pushy.

People younger and thin and as little body hair as possible interests me. I would be willing to have all body hair removed for the right person.

I want someone that understands that I have always been straight and my desire to become a sub bottom goes against everything I have been. Through that understanding they slowly help me to make it a reality without pushing me but knows how to use my desires against me to get it to happen. After it happens they slowly help me to want more and continually push me to want more with no end in sight.

I need people I can be attracted to and that usually means younger than me and in pretty good shape. If it is a couple or more than one person then everyone involved should be reasonably attractive. BBW types are not desired. It is just my preference in what attracts me no different than other people.

While I have zero romantic interest in men I have a curiosity about TS/TG/CD/MtF. I can't say I could have a relationship with one but I would love to find young 100% passable TS/TG/CD/MtF. One that could look better than most women. That person would still need to be a top only. But I would find it interesting to actually date one, do normal date things in public.

I do like the idea of a hot young couple making me their bottom toy to use and pleasure them.

More than 1 man such as 2 men or more or multiple men and women would have to understand I would be bottom only and with me they would have to be top only. However, I need just one on one for now until I could be built up to taking on more, physically and mentally.