enlightendam 53 / F
"Dirty talkers, dominant males, submissive females, please apply here!"
Las Vegas, Nevada, United States
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enlightendam 53/F
Las Vegas, Nevada
I like people who are comfortable in their own skin, verbal, and capable of being respectful and classy when out and dominant in the bedroom. I need to be able to connect mentally and have a spark with someone. I am attracted to articulate, educated and interesting people who are able to hold a conversation.

I am into health and fitness, have athletic body and am clean shaven. I am turned on by the same.

I like to be dominant with females only, but can switch with women. I am not interested in dominating men.

I have very limited playtime on weekends and an occasional weeknight. Please don't email and expect availability the same night, it is not going to happen!

We can casually meet or will take time to chat or email to ensure a good result. I don't meet people after one email or phone call, I just don't have that kind of time, and don't want to waste anyone's time if we are not sure of a good result.

My Ideal Person Ideal Person(s)
I am interested in a dynamic that includes some power exchange, dominance and submission, not extreme play, and chemistry has to be there. Sexual confidence and performance are very important. If you are quiet and shy or inexperienced, no offense but please pass me by and best of luck in your search. Males must be well-endowed, handsome, big sexual appetite, and also creative and kinky so not your average Joe.

Dirty talk, text, chats or email help to enhance the connection and build up the anticipation for the encounter. Without this, it is unclear whether there is a mental as well as physical connection. This does not mean long strings of incessant texts either.
I am very clean, smooth and manicured and am are turned off by hairy people who don't groom their private parts.

If you do not read my profile, engage me in some way about yourself and why you think we are a good match, you will get no reply. I understand people tend to look only at pictures but I go beyond that. If you email me saying hi or wow, I am sorry but I don't have time to go back and forth to find out what you are about and whether we are a match.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, Under a waterfall, A store dressing room, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Leather, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 53 / female
  • Las Vegas, Nevada, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Men, Women or Groups
Birthdate: February 20, 1964
Hometown: New York, New York
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Single
Height: 5 ft 3 in / 160-162 cm
Body Type: Athletic
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Master's degree
Occupation: Motivating Others
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Agnostic
Have Children: Prefer not to say
Want Children: Happy with what I have
Bra Size: 34 / 75 B
Speaks: English, Dirtytalk
Hair Color: Blonde
Hair Length: Medium
Eye Color: Green
Glasses or Contacts: None
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