eclecticgirl9 62 / F
"Love those Badgers! Go red!"
Madison, Wisconsin, United States
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eclecticgirl9 62/F
Madison, Wisconsin
WOW!! What was I thinking??

I've met some very nice, genuine people in my search for someone to end my 18+ years of celibacy with. I've also met my fair share of liars, fakes and big talkers with no back up or follow through. I'm willing to consider the FWB kind of thing. I'm not however, looking for a NSA one nighter or the "discrete" dirty little secret so many of you married or otherwise attached guys are looking for. I use to love sex before that long, self-imposed hiatus... and that hasn't changed. I'll be glad to reveal what I missed most... if you ask!

I'm an admitted sports junkie... Badgers, Packers, Brewers, Cubs, Blackhawks, Steve Stricker, Matt Kenseth.... I'm an outdoorsy, nature lover... It would be great to find a guy that likes to fish... by the way, I can bait my own hook, take my own fish off and even clean fish if I have to... amp; but I won't like it!!

I love to travel. I enjoy road trips... it can be a day or a month, with no specific place in mind or a planned destination. It can be spur of the moment or something mapped out ahead of time. There are so many places in the USA that I would still like to see. I've also been known to trek into Ontario Canada in search of big fish, but I wouldn't mind seeing the rest of Canada, including Nova Scotia. I don't mind staying home either. Whether it's watching movies, working in the yard, having friends over to play cards or Scrabble or just sitting on the front porch... there's always something to do.

I love to laugh... even at myself (I've amassed plenty of material over the years). I have a quick wit and sometimes a sarcastic sense of humor that has been known to get me in trouble... a fun kind of trouble usually!

I am casual, clean, d/d free and well groomed. I expect the same from a partner... that's not saying I don't like blue collar guys that get dirty for a living, as long as you clean up nicely, know your way to a barber occasionally and own and use a toothbrush! I am overweight, but making an attempt to lose through healthier eating and exercise.

There is one thing I found really annoying however. I have very clearly stated that I am overweight. So what is it with you guys that want skinny or height/weight proportionate ladies, yet you want to email back and forth endlessly? Don't waste my time if you are not interested in big girls!!

*** Please, if you're married, separated or attached, look somewhere else..... don't lie about it. There are plenty of women on this site that don't care and will be glad to hook up with you.... I'm just not one of them. ***

My Ideal Person Ideally, I would like to find a loving, funny, honest, loyal, outdoorsy, all around nice guy that has a high sex drive... who wants a cute, honest, loyal, funny, big girl for a FWB or long term, possibly life time relationship. Don't let that scare you away.... realistically, I know those kind of guys are not easy to find or they don't exist ... so maybe I'd be happy with an honest nice FWB type guy, that has a good sense of humor and wants to have a lot of adult fun, especially receiving oral, (yup, you read it right, I love to give oral and swallow). I want and need a guy that is looking for more than just a one nighter with a cute, big girl.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Doobie Brothers, Eagles, BTO, Meatloaf, Al Green, BarryWhite,
Mary Chapin Carpenter

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Boating to a back bay or an uninhabited island in either
the Gulf of Mexico or a lake in northern WI. Spending the
day having adult fun, playing in the water or on the sand,
maybe fishing, maybe playing in the boat.... it will always
be in, on or near the water with my trusted companion. B)

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Spanking, Blindfolds, Massage, Rough, but not painful

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 62 / female
  • Madison, Wisconsin, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Men
Birthdate: June 9, 1954
Relocate?: Maybe/Yes
Marital Status: Single
Height: 5 ft 1 in / 154-157 cm
Body Type: BBW
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Some college
Occupation: retired investigator
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Christian
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children: Happy with what I have
Bra Size: 46+ / 105+ DD (E, if no DD)
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Green
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses
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