New York has always been my home (except when away for school) and I always plan to live here but sometimes I get tired of the way this city can be -- too fast, too pressured, too much everything, except for the time to slow down and explore another per, intellectually, romantically, and, of course, sexually... I've also got a side that likes, once in a while, to film myself -- the source of the video clip attached to my profile -- and also enjoys the occasional nude beach -- so I guess I have something of an exhibitionist streak too. I would like to indulge that with someone. Let's have some fun. Allergic to horses but I like riding. And I don't eat in bed - at least not food. Break (or fulfill) a New Year's resolution with me.

My Ideal Person First, you live not only on my continent and in my time zone, but in my city. Please.
I'd like to meet women who are looking for something casual, and who understand that casual and meaningless are very different things. One can still slow down and take the time to do it right -- atmosphere, buildup, passion -- without necessarily having it be part of something long-term. Sometimes just fucking each other silly can be great fun. But I have to like you to fuck you. Or to go down on you, which is something I'll do frequently if we find ourselves at that stage. I'd also like someone confident in her appearance -- confident enough to have a picture available, and preferably posted. After all, I've managed to get through my shyness and put up a few that would make friends and family faint dead away.
If I've caught your interest, go ahead and send a note. I know women's mailboxes are likely to be flooded with mail; it makes me a lot less likely to send an unsolicited note...
There's one more thing I'd like to make clear, for guys considering sending messages. I'm not homophobic, but I'm straight. Not bi. Straight. Save your time and move on to someone else. Thanks.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A swimming pool or hot tub

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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